A guide to visiting Groton, Connecticut

Did you know that Mystic is considered a village that is part of Groton, Connecticut? If you’re on the right side, that is. The downtown where Sift Bake Shop and Mystic Pizza are - that is the Groton side. If you cross over the bridge towards Whaler’s Inn and Mystic River Park, you’re in Stonington.

Groton was nicknamed “Rotten Groton”, but there’s nothing rotten about it! When I moved to Connecticut, I learned about its rich military history. Groton is known as the submarine capital of the world. If you’re looking for an easy short day, look no further than Groton.

A painted sub that was part of a town-wide submarine trail in 2016. Some subs can be spotted in the wild to this day.

A painted sub that was part of a town-wide submarine trail in 2016. Some subs can be spotted in the wild to this day.

Fort Griswold Battlefield State Park is a Revolutionary War era battlefield that sits next to the Thames River. It’s across the river from Fort Trumbull in New London, CT. Fort Griswold is a 17 acres battlefield with old cannons, memorials and monuments. There is a 135 feet obelisk monument dedicated to lives lost during the battle. I had the opportunity to walk up the 166 steps to the top and see the river view! It was gorgeous sunny that day when I went up. Next to the monument, there is a small museum (in the old caretaker’s house) with historical artifacts. The museum and monument are open to the public from Memorial Day to Labor Day. The battlefield is open year-round. It’s fun to explore and walk around the battlefield during any season. The river view is always amazing (here’s a tip, this is one of the best spots for sunsets!).

Entrance to Fort Griswold.

Entrance to Fort Griswold.

Rocky path down to the open field (there are other paths that aren’t as rocky, but may be steep climb).

Rocky path down to the open field (there are other paths that aren’t as rocky, but may be steep climb).

One of underground bunkers at Fort Griswold.

One of underground bunkers at Fort Griswold.

The view of Thames River from Fort Griswold.

The view of Thames River from Fort Griswold.

Submarine Force Museum / USS Nautilus has an amazing collection of the submarine history. The museum is managed by the U.S. Navy. You can also tour the USS Nautilus, the first nuclear powered submarine. The tour is usually about half hour long, and definitely not for those who are claustrophobic! It was a challenge for me, but I did it. I have EVEN more appreciation for our Sailors, I can’t imagine being confided in a tight space for months! There are two submarines on display out front of the museum as well. There’s so much to look at inside the museum, it’s worthwhile to explore this museum!

The Submarine Force museum.

The Submarine Force museum.

Submarine coming home - Halloween 2017.

Submarine coming home - Halloween 2017.

February 2018.

February 2018.

June 2021.

June 2021.

The reason why Groton is known to be the ‘submarine capital’ is because of U.S. Navy base (which is located right next to the museum) and General Dynamics Electric Boat. Electric Boat is the primary submarine builder for the U.S. Navy. If you’re lucky, you can spot a submarine going up or down the Thames River. Usually the best point of views is at Eastern Point Beach.

At Eastern Point Beach, you can see Thames River connecting into the Long Island sound. You can see many boats (ferries included) coming in and out. During the off season, parking is free for anyone. Many people go there to take in the beautiful coastal views. Again, this is another good spot for sunsets. From there, you can see two lighthouses - Ledge Light and New London Lighthouse. During summer, the beach can be a busy place to be!

View of Thames River from Eastern Point.

View of Thames River from Eastern Point.

Eastern Point Beach.

Eastern Point Beach.

UConn Avery Point is near by to Eastern Point Beach. There is a walking trail that is open to anyone. It also has beautiful coastal views. This is the home to one of my favorite lighthouses - the Avery Point Light. I enjoy watching people fishing off the rocks here. The Branford House (a mansion modeled oof the Newport Mansions) is stunning. I’m always amazed by its details, it seems like I find a new one every visit. Many weddings have occurred here, so if you’re here during summer on the weekends chances are very likely that you will see one. I love the panoramic ocean view from the balcony!

Branford Mansion at UConn Avery Point.

Branford Mansion at UConn Avery Point.

Avery Point Light. My pup couldn’t get in the festive mood with me!

Avery Point Light. My pup couldn’t get in the festive mood with me!

A lot of photo opportunities here!

A lot of photo opportunities here!

Avery Point Light in the dark - the green light is on every night.

Avery Point Light in the dark - the green light is on every night.

Groton is also home of the BEST pasta ever. Where? Paul’s Pasta Shop. It is a gem. The pasta is made fresh daily right there in their shop. When I first moved here, it quickly became a favorite. So much that I became a regular there. I’ve celebrated many milestones there. Paul’s Pasta is the coziness of Italian restaurants, friendly staff and amazing food. It is a very special place! The best part is that you can take fresh pasta home to cook another night!

Pesto pasta and lobster ravioli.

Pesto pasta and lobster ravioli.

Whenever I need some quietness from the bustle of Mystic, I enjoy walking around Groton either at the battlefield or Avery Point. You can’t beat those coastal views! I love how you can see all 3 lighthouses from Avery Point too. I used to sit at the Eastern Point Beach parking lot early in the morning with breakfast and watch the ferry when I lived in Groton. It took me a while before I finally saw my first submarine! That went in my book as one of the coolest thing I saw!

USS Nautilus.

USS Nautilus.

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8 Libraries You Must Visit in Southeastern CT/RI

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Happy National Library Week! I have such a huge appreciation for the libraries. I have been a bookworm dating back to my childhood days. Due to my deafness, I wasn’t able to hear information, books gave me that access. I learned so much through books about the world, people, cultures and beyond.

I still utilize libraries to this day. One thing that I love about Southeastern Connecticut is that there are so MANY libraries and some are in historical buildings. Where I grew up, I only had one library in a rural town. I’m amazed at how many there are within half hour of Mystic, CT so I’m sharing some of my favorites that you must visit:

WESTERLY LIBRARY & WILCOX PARK — WESTERLY, RI

This is a beautiful library overlooking a park. Keep an eye out for their book sales over the summers - they have a great selection. This time of the year is definitely the best to visit the park, all of the trees and plants are blooming. I always make this an annual spring trip!

WHEELER LIBRARY — NORTH STONINGTON, CT

In a former schoolhouse, this library is gorgeous. Especially the upper level. When you walk in Wheeler Library, there are two lions statues guarding the doors (reminds me of NYC Public Library!). Also the best part? There’s a year-round book sale in the cellar, all profits go back to the library. The staff here is so friendly, I would go back there just for them alone!

STONINGTON FREE LIBRARY — STONINGTON, CT

You can’t miss this library situated in the middle of the green, right as you enter the borough. Go inside and see the gorgeous upper level combined with regal columns and amazing floors. When the weather is beautiful, they have an outdoor patio where you can read or work at the table.

MYSTIC NOANK LIBRARY — MYSTIC, CT

One of the most beautiful libraries! Since it was a sea captain who built this, you can see nautical touches throughout the library. I love the exterior details… those green moldings! I also admire the carved oak ceiling! Cat lovers, this will be the one for you - there are two library cats that lives there. I always have to visit with them every time I drop in. The interior detail is just stunning, especially the green banker lamps which reminds me of the ones at Boston Public Library.

BILL MEMORIAL LIBRARY — GROTON, CT

Located right next to Fort Griswold, this beautiful small library is worth a peek. The interior details are stunning, wood paneled ceilings and the iron cast doors! Despite it being probably the smallest library, it is very cozy.

BILL LIBRARY — LEDYARD, CT

Yes, you read that right - there is another library in the area with the same name. If you read up on the history - there is a family connection with both. There is a walkable sidewalk from the library into Ledyard Center.

NEW LONDON PUBLIC LIBRARY — NEW LONDON, CT

Situated in Downtown New London, on the corner of State Street and Huntington Street. The historical library is surrounded by other historical buildings — the oldest courthouse across the street, Garde Art Centers and more.

PHOEBE GRIFFIN LIBRARY — OLD LYME, CT

I enjoy my visit there as it is perched on Main Street in Old Lyme, where there are nearby businesses to check out. The library also has a book sale cellar opened on Wednesdays and Saturdays.

There are more libraries in the area that I didn’t include. I always make sure to visit libraries on my day trips or travels. It’s amazing to see the variety of details and structures. I am forever grateful that libraries exist in today’s world!

My experience at Wicked Tulips in Preston, Connecticut

One of my bucket list items for years now has been to visit Wicked Tulips in Exeter, Rhode Island. Imagine my excitement when they opened a Connecticut location in Preston, 30 minutes drive from Mystic. I was thrilled to finally get my chance to go on opening day for Preston farm this year.

The Preston farm is the largest with 700,000 tulips! All together there are 1.5 million tulips between the three farms [Exeter, RI / Johnston, RI / Preston, CT]. It was easy to find the farm, they have a flags/“Entrance” sign off Route 164. A few people directed me where to park. It is a grassy farm land. The check-in was quick and easy. You do have to purchase tickets online as there aren’t any tickets sold on site. The tickets are sold in bundles at a time, as they follow the bloom reports closely and want to be sure there’s enough for everyone.

Each ticket will allow you to pick 10 tulips and any additional are $1 per. At the check-in, the staff was very helpful and asked if it was my first time visiting. They explained how to pull tulips appropriately. The website also explains everything. Pulling the tulips was fun, some of them will come up with its bulb attached (don’t worry, they’ll cut it off for you!).

It was a STUNNING sight. ALL. THE. COLORS. Wow. It was very impressive. I don’t know why I waited so long to visit Wicked Tulips! A very photogenic spot, they encourage you to take as many photos as you can! There’s a guideline on the website for photographers (professional and causal). I enjoyed photographing the tulips. I was there right before the sunset, so the lighting was mostly good!

Did you know there’s morning yoga sessions at Wicked Tulips too?? It’s on the weekends, pending weather. The tickets are sold the week of the yoga sessions. There’s also some sunset yoga sessions as well. It’s definitely worthwhile to subscribe to the emails where all the most recent updates are shared, even some information that you’ll get before it’s shared with the public.

I was able to stay there as long as I wanted. There were several tables and benches where you can take a seat. Snacking is allowed. The staff are extremely friendly and helpful. I was very impressed by their positive attitudes. On the way out, they even asked if we enjoyed ourselves and to have a good night. I was able to ask a staff to snap a photo of me and my family member. 5 stars for the staff!

Don’t wait on visiting Wicked Tulips like I did. The season is also very short, and varies on each location so again the website here will be helpful to plan your day. It’s so stunning and I loved it there. Definitely won’t be my last time visiting Wicked Tulips.

Wicked Tulips

  • Preston | 382 Route 164 Preston, CT 06365

  • Exeter | 400 Hog House Hill Rd Exeter, RI 02822

  • Johnston | 90 Brown Ave Johnston, RI 02919

www.wickedtulips.com

Cherry Blossoms in New Haven, Connecticut

The month of April always welcomes the beautiful cherry blossoms in New Haven, Connecticut. It is located at the Wooster Square Park. This is every photographer’s dream as the park is surrounded by beautiful historical homes. Usually the Historic Wooster Square Association hosts a cherry blossom festival the first Saturday of April.

As a photographer from Mystic, CT — I love to check out the cherry blossoms in New Haven. I usually can find parking right by the park. Do keep in mind, I have only gone during weekdays. I have no idea what the parking situation is like on the weekends. Since I drive an hour from Mystic, I also tend to make a day out of it in New Haven. Yale campus is a beautiful spot for photographing!

Two hours parking Mon-Fri from 8am-7pm all around Wooster Square Park.

It is a short walk around the Wooster Square Park but I take my time to enjoy the beauty of the cherry blossoms. It is stunning! There are a few benches around the park, I’ve seen people do picnics and bring their dogs there to play around on the grass. As I mentioned, the park is surrounded by beautiful historical homes. I’ve walked along some side streets from the park to admire the details and photograph them.

While you’re at Wooster Square Park, you always can smell pizza from one of the famous New Haven pizzerias that are nearby. If you’re hungry for a bite, look no further than Frank Pepe Pizzeria or Sally’s Apizza — you really can’t go wrong with either. Both are just 5 minute walk from Wooster Square Park. Modern Apizza (the only one that offers gluten free options) is not within walking distance but only 5 minute drive.

Enjoy the snaps I captured of the cherry blossoms (and surrounding scenes at Wooster Square Park and Yale campus) during April 2024 & 2025 season.

April 15, 2024

April 17, 2025

USS Indiana homecoming 3/27/25

Hooray for another homecoming in Groton, Connecticut. USS Indiana returned home on March 27, 2025. Seeing that red tug boat heading out never gets old — the excitement knowing that the submarine is nearing Thames River to head down to the sub base.

It was a cold and windy day, but it didn’t stop many people from coming out and support the sailors. The sub vets from Groton always attend every homecoming donning their red hats and fire off the cannon (with blanks, of course).

Grateful for our military to serve for our country, as well their families.

Charles W. Morgan Haul

Photographed on March 27, 2025 when Charles W. Morgan was moved to the shipyard at Mystic Seaport Museum for routine maintenance in Mystic, Connecticut.

Mystic Irish Parade 2025

Things to do during Spring in Mystic, CT

Happy Spring! I’m thrilled that the warmer weather will be here (we already had some ‘teaser’ days!) and we can enjoy the outdoors more. I’m also excited for all of the flowers to bloom across Mystic. I love that Mystic is an ideal town to visit year-round. Here are some suggestions for things to do this spring:


DAFFODILS @ DENISON HOMESTEAD MUSEUM

The unofficial kick-off to spring in Mystic starts with 10,000 beautiful daffodils blooming at Denison Homestead Museum! It usually starts in late March/early April. The field is directly in front of the house, which is visible from the road. It is open to the public from dawn-dusk. Stop by, enjoy them and take photos! Also a head’s up - the field can be muddy so be sure to wear rain boots! Don’t miss the Daffodil Festival usually held in the first week of April where you can tour the historical house, there are craft activities for kids and enjoy food/drinks. Extend your visit to the daffodil field with a hike on 10+ miles of trails at Denison Nature Center located across the street. Read more about it here.

LENTEN FISH FRY

Every Friday during Lent, there are several locations that fry up delicious fish and chips! Open to anyone of any faith to enjoy. Stop by:

  • Portuguese Holy Ghost Society in Stonington Borough from 11am-7:30pm

  • Mystic Fire Department at Hoxie House from 5-8pm

  • J&R Seafood Market from 11am-7pm

  • St. Edmund’s Retreat at Enders Island starts at 6pm

ST. PATRICK’S DAY PARADE

One of the best days in Mystic! The parade is one of the region’s largest held on the Sunday after St. Patrick’s Day. The parade route starts at the south parking lot of Mystic Seaport, goes to Broadway, Main Street (Downtown Mystic) and ending at Mystic Art Museum. It usually draws 30K visitors to enjoy the festive event so be sure to arrive early to find a parking spot! Read more about St. Patrick’s Day in Mystic on a previous blog here.

TAKE THE MYSTIC PIZZA TOUR

You know that movie with Julia Roberts? It really was inspired by Mystic Pizza right here in Mystic, CT! The pizza restaurant may not be the actual filming location but there are many nearby in Mystic, Stonington, Pawcatuck, Noank and Westerly, RI. Take a spring day road trip to check out the locations! The addresses of the locations can be found on this blog: Mystic Pizza Tour.

VISIT MUSEUMS/AQUARIUM

Mystic has plenty of things to do and see, which includes museums and aquarium!

  • Mystic Museum of Art - a small museum with beautiful curated art works. Opened year around with free admission (unless there is a special exhibition) but donations are appreciated. Don’t miss out on the waterfront views from the back of the museum.

  • Mystic Aquarium - the aquarium is one of the largest in the United States. It’s easy enough to spend an entire day there. I always look so forward to the sea lions show as well visit the penguins and the whales.

  • Mystic Seaport Museum - this 19th century seafaring village is one of my favorite spots in Mystic. There’s always something to photograph and I also enjoy walking around the grounds with my pup! I suggest waiting until April 1st when the full museum is opened (only half is opened right now).

SHOP AT OLDE MISTICK VILLAGE

Opened year-round, this colonial 18th century village has over 50+ unique shops! The village consists of a luxury movie theater, restaurants, unique shops and more. There is something for absolutely everyone. Don’t forget to bring your fur kiddos as it is dog-friendly too!

ABBOTT’S OPENING FOR THE SEASON

Mark your calendar for the opening day of Abbott’s Lobster in the Rough in Noank, CT in the first week of May! Read more about Abbott’s on a previous blog here.

DOWNTOWN MYSTIC

Enjoy a stroll around downtown where there are plenty of local shops and restaurants to support. Mystic River Park is also a wonderful spot to relax, sit in one of the many benches and watch all the activity around the park.

Mystic holds a lot of charm and I love how it is an ideal spot to visit year-round. I hope you find this spring guide helpful and enjoy your visit. Pop over to my Instagram @knotsoloud and see more of Mystic on my feed. I would love to hear about your visit to Mystic!

Connecticut Maple Weekend in Hebron, Connecticut

It’s time of the year for maple! I consider myself a maple syrup connoisseur. My love for maple started as a kid living on the border of New York/Pennsylvania. I would hop over to Pennsylvania to this tree farm that would sell maple flavored cotton candy. When I moved to New England, I noticed that many states do a maple weekend so naturally I had to go see what a maple weekend was like!

Last year, I visited East Hampton and Hebron. It also colluded with the annual Hebron Maple Festival so there were even more activities to do. While I didn’t get to see what the festival offered because I wanted to focus on touring the open houses of several sugar houses.

If you plan to go to that area, I recommend this list (in order):

RICK’S SUGAR SHACK 69 COLLIE BROOK RD EAST HAMPTON, CT

I’m so glad that this was the first stop because Rick, the owner was VERY informative! I never seen the process of a sugar house so Rick really explained the process, showed a lot and was willing to answer questions. There was a small store offering maple syrup, maple flavored cookies and brownies, maple candy and more. Don’t miss the tasting room where you can sample the products before purchasing them!

WENZEL SUGAR HOUSE 522 EAST ST HEBRON, CT

The sugar house was similar to Rick’s Sugar Shack, but instead of collecting the sap in bags they used tubing system. I learned more about that process. This location was known for their maple pudding cake too, it looked delicious (but I couldn’t enjoy it because of my allergies unfortunately!). They also offer maple syrup for purchase.

WOODY ACRES 80 CONE ST HEBRON, CT

Here, I learned more about the amount of sap needed to collect to make one small tin of maple syrup. It is fascinating how much goes in a pint! Maple syrup and maple candy are also available to buy here.

WINDING BROOK 254 SKINNER LANE HEBRON, CT

The biggest sugar house, with a bigger machine to produce 300 gallon of maple syrup (other sugar houses produced 60 gallon). The machine used oil to operate, while the other machines I saw used wood stove. I learned more about the differences of the machines. Maple syrup was available for purchase, and you could taste them beforehand.

MORE SUGAR HOUSES IN THE AREA:

  • BRIGHT ACRES FARM 46 OLD KINGS HIGHWAY EAST HAMPTON, CT

  • BUELL’S DRAGONFLY FARM 105 OLD GRIFFIN HIGHWAY EAST HAMPTON, CT

  • GOSHEN HILL MAPLE 1040 GOSHEN HILL RD EXT LEBANON, CT

There were a few more sugar houses I planned to go, but time ran out for me. I plan to return and visit them as well see more of the Hebron Maple Festival! It’s a fun weekend to celebrate our local farmers and the hard work they put in to providing us delicious maple syrup!

shoreline photography: mystic’s best views

Living in Mystic, CT has inspired my passion for photography to make a comeback. I got into photography when I was a teen. I majored it in high school then first year of college before I decided I wanted to keep it as a hobby. I feared that doing it as a job would make me lose the fun I have while photographing.

During the pandemic, I was talking a lot more of walks around different neighborhoods in Mystic that I normally don’t walk through. I wanted to see more of the town and I had that extra time! As Mystic draws many visitors to the town, I thought I’d share my recommendations with photographers who desire to find the best photogenic spots in Mystic.

Mystic is blessed with it all — shoreline views, beautiful historical homes, wildlife, sunsets and more! My recommendations for the best photography spots are:

  • Downtown Mystic — you can’t go wrong with the historic drawbridge. If you’re visiting between spring-fall, you will be able to capture it in motion. The best views of the bridge would be on the Stonington side (Whaler’s Inn) from Mystic River Park. You also can walk around Downtown, I highly suggest getting up early in the morning (7-9am) before downtown gets busy.

  • River Road — this is the ideal spot for wildlife photographing. If you drive down near Peace Sanctuary, there will be some parking area off the side of the road. If you walk towards the overpass bridge, you’ll see several nests.

  • Pearl St x Starr St — the best view of Mystic Seaport lighthouse. I suggest going there for either sunrise or sunset, I always get amazing colors with the lighthouse!

  • Gravel St — a scenic route right by Mystic River. You can capture a lot from there from boats, birds, water activities and more. If you happen to be in town during full moon, I've captured my best photos of it from this location.

  • Mystic Seaport Museum — you’ll need an admission fee to get inside but I always get countless photos from there. I’ve photographed the visiting boats (Wooden Boat Show in June!), many close ups of nautical items, the water activity on Mystic River, the sailing classes with the bright colorful sails, the landscape of the historical village, it goes on and on!

  • Coastal accesses — there are so many of them along Mystic River with beautiful views. I’ve complied a list of them on a separate blog here. I’ve captured photos from all of them.

  • Holmes St to Bay St — another scenic route by the Mystic River. This is a favorite spot during fall for foliage photographing.

  • Historical homes — there are many of them around Mystic. I would suggest these following streets because they are very walkable: Willow Street, Gravel Street, Elm Street, Pearl Street, West Mystic Ave.

Hope you enjoy photographing the beautiful coastal town of Mystic! I always love seeing different perspectives from other photographers. It’s amazing how many different ways we all see Mystic!

celebrate St. Patrick's Day in Mystic

"St. Patrick's Day is a day to celebrate our green heritage. The ancestry of Ireland. It is a day to celebrate what it means to be Irish and of Irish descent." -Anthony T. Hicks

The knotty shamrock made by Mystic Knotwork.

Mystic, Connecticut has the region’s largest St. Patrick’s Day parade every year on the Sunday after St. Patrick’s Day. The parade route starts at the south parking lot of the Mystic Seaport and running through Broadway to Main St (Downtown Mystic). The end of the parade is at Mystic Art Museum, which is close to Sift Bake Shop. The Mystic Irish Parade Foundation (MIPF) always does an EXCELLENT job of organizing the parade every year to celebrate the Irish heritage for everyone! Can you believe that MIPF is completely volunteer driven and a nonprofit organization?!

Westerly Fire Department in St. Patrick’s Day parade 2023.

The parade itself is very impressive with over 2,000 participants and drawing 30,000 speculators every year. The usual participants are the fire departments (love how Mystic firefighters always sports the green gloves!), local organizations, antique cars, Mystic Aquarium, St. Patrick’s Church, the bagpipes bands, marching bands and the Guinness truck. It was a memorable year in 2018 when the Budweiser Clydesdales marched in the parade. I was especially excited as a (crazy) Dalmatian mom to see Barley the Budweiser Dalmatian!

Budweiser Clydesdales marched in the parade in 2018.

Budweiser Clydesdales marched in the parade in 2018.

It can get crazy packed in the downtown area. I suggest you to get parking at least couple hours before the parade starts. The town police will close off routes across the town. If you want to be in downtown, there is parking at the Mystic Art Museum. If you want to be on the other side near Mystic Seaport Museum, there will be parking at Olde Mistick Village but it’s a trek! Most probably you will have to hunt for a spot on one of the many side streets along the parade route.

Mystic Highland Pipe Band in the parade.

Downtown Mystic gets VERY festive for St. Patrick’s Day with storefront decorations, Irish themed food/drinks, shamrocks everywhere and the tricolor Ireland flags waving throughout the town. I may live in the area, but I definitely think it is worth the drive to come here for the Irish weekend! The best part is there’s plenty to make a weekend out of it. If you are in town on Friday night, the B.F. Hoxie Engine Co. (near the Mystic train station) hosts their annual fish ‘n’ chips dinner from 5-8 PM. They have one of the most delicious fish fry in the region! Mystic Irish 5K will be happening on the Saturday before parade day. On parade day, the Mystic Hook and Ladder Fire Company hosts their annual breakfast. They will be serving an all you can eat with eggs, home fries, corned beef hash, sausage, bacon, pancakes, and toast. Coffee and orange juice will be available.

The local businesses in downtown Mystic also get into the celebrations! The Black Dog always have St. Patrick’s Day themed clothing and hats. Sift Bake Shop rolls out their green croissants filled with Bailey Irish Cream! Mystic Knotwork made a green shamrock out of rope which is visible on the Mystic Drawbridge as well as their retail shops. Known for their handcrafted recycled sails tote bags, Sea Bags has shamrock themed bags! Looking for some Irish whiskey or Irish cream? Spencer & Lynn has all of the necessaries!

Young buns doughnuts [no longer in business] used to roll out fun St. Patrick’s Day themed donuts!

I can’t write this post without mentioning Harp & Hound Pub. It’s a necessity to stop in for a pint when you’re in Mystic. It is one of the most authentic Irish pubs I’ve been in. The owner is from Limerick, Ireland. The pub is filled with dark wood decor and roadway signs from Ireland as well patches from first responders. They also serve sandwiches and traditional Irish entrees for lunch and dinner. Every time I’m missing Ireland, I just go to the pub and reminiscence the memories!

Westerly FD in the parade.

Mystic Irish Parade Foundation does a raffle drawing every year with 3 prizes. The 3rd prize is a $200 gift card to Taber Inn in Mystic. The 2nd prize is an iPad Air. The grand prize is a trip for two to IRELAND! It includes 7 days/6 nights accommodations, round trip airfare, and car rental. You can purchase the raffle tickets which are $5 at Harp & Hound Pub. You do not need to be present to win. It’s an annual tradition to enter myself in the raffle drawing hoping for the grand prize! Who wouldn’t want a free trip to the beautiful Emerald Isle?!

The Ireland flag in the parade.

Lastly, don’t forget to visit Irish Eyes at Olde Mistick Village. They have everything you would need - a shirt? They got it! A hat? They got it! Irish sweaters? They got it! I love the Irish jewelry selection - make it a memorable trip and get yourself a claddagh ring to remember the fun Irish weekend in Mystic!

explore the wonders of mystic aquarium

Mystic Aquarium is home to thousands of marine life from penguins, beluga whales, seas lions to fishes. It’s so easy to spend the entire day there. It’s no surprise that Mystic Aquarium was named one of the best aquariums in the United States.

The aquarium is opened year round as it has both indoor and outdoor exhibits. The indoor exhibits include fishes, octopus, jellyfishes, sharks and many more! Another indoor exhibit is Dino Seas which is an interactive exhibit on the history of dinosaurs. The outdoor exhibits include beluga whales, seals, sea lions and penguins. There is also a marsh area where you can find turtles.

To make your visit more fun, look into the encounters with animals where you can interact with penguins, sea lions and seals. These experiences have an additional cost on top of admission cost. It will be worth it to have a memorable experience! I enjoyed my experience of feeding the stingrays — I was scared at first but then had fun!

What I love about the aquarium is the easy flow of the layout, I always start the visit at the beluga whales exhibit. Look for my friend, Juno. They are so fun and I love it when they are playful with the visitors. I head over to the penguins and watch them waddle and paddle! If I’m lucky, I enjoy watching them during feeding time. The sea lion show (indoors) is a must, it never gets old. The aquarium does a good job of switching up themes of the shows yearly. I tend to spend most of my time there at the outdoor exhibits. At the end of the visit, I always do a walkthrough of the indoor exhibits. It’s fascinating to watch the jellyfishes!

How I found out about the aquarium was through their Animal Rescue/Rehab Center. I attended a seal release in Charlestown, Rhode Island back in 2012/2013. I was very intrigued to learn about all they do for injured animals and how they get rehabbed for releases. They do several seal releases which I try to attend — it’s heartwarming to watch them go back in the ocean! To follow when seal releases happens, Mystic Aquarium Animal Rescue Program post updates on their Facebook page here. I do have to warn, these events do get very packed! I suggest getting to the beach early.

If you get hungry during your visit at the aquarium, there is a cafe where you can order food. There are several tables inside and outside where you can dine. Don’t forget to stop in the aquarium shop located next door. Pick up a souvenir to remember your fun memorable day there!

You can purchase tickets online at their website. There are ways you can save on your tickets, through a membership, special discounts for Military, First Responders, UConn, Foxwoods, etc. If you’re a resident in Connecticut, many libraries provide a day pass for discounted tickets. All information about hours, pricing, discounts are available here on their website. Parking is free on site.

things you should never say to a deaf person

Interacting with people who have never met a deaf person can sometimes make an interesting encounter. I had to compile a list of questions/comments you should never say to a deaf person:

“Can you hear me now?!” (covers mouth and screams)

I can’t tell you how often this happens; more frequently when I was younger in middle and high school. I played for a co-ed soccer team which my dad helped coach practices. One day I had a male teammate that asked me if I could hear him now as he covered his mouth and screamed (my dad heard him). I stood there puzzled having no idea what he had even asked me. I’ve even had people come up to my ears and scream “Can you hear me?!”.

“I’m sorry.”

Why? This is the most awkward thing you could say to a deaf person. I don’t feel sorry. This is my life. This is all I know. I can still do normal things. I can play sports. I can read books. I can travel. I can write. What’s there to be sorry about? When someone says that to me, it makes me feel weird and I never know what to say back.

“Can you drive?”

Why do you need your hearing to drive? “What about the firetrucks and ambulances?" I can SEE them! Some first responders don’t use the sirens, but use the lights. Deaf drivers are statistically proved to be safer drivers than hearing drivers because of high alertness and quicker motor reflexes. I can spot a flashing light from an emergency vehicle probably a mile behind or ahead of me, quicker than others. I have pulled over so many times with people around me not realizing that emergency vehicles were coming.

“You don’t look deaf.”

How can I look deaf? The hearing loss is inside my ears.

“I know ASL!” and flips the bird.

This is pretty old… I have gotten this reply so many times that it’s just [eye-rolling].

“Where are you from?” (accent)

This may be my favorite. I love it when people think I’m from another country. Sometimes I do have fun with this one, saying that I’m from (whatever country I feel like that day). Sometimes I would just say Upstate NY (where I am actually from) and people give me a strange look.

“I don’t know how I could live without music if I was deaf.”

I don’t know what I’m missing out on with hearing music. I still can enjoy music in a different way so it’s not missing from my life just because of my deafness. I went to a Flogging Molly concert last spring and wrote about it here. This comment is no different than saying that you don’t want my life. I happen to love my life!

“Tell her I said (this and that)” (Talk to my interpreter/friend/family like I’m not standing there).

I’m standing right there. You can ask me directly, look at me and whoever is with me will help to communicate. You can ask “How are you?” and they will sign “how are you” to me. If you say “Ask her how is she?”. They will sign “ask her how is she?”. It’s just confusing.

“Can you lipread?”

Almost always I want to reply “Can you read my sign?”. Read here.

“Why didn’t you get cochlear implants?”

People always think cochlear implants is an easy fix but it’s a huge decision. I wrote about my reason why I didn’t get them here.

“Wow! You can talk.”

Some deaf people talk. Some deaf people don’t. It’s a personal choice if they want to use their voice. I learned speech/talking first before sign language. Still, when I get that from people, it makes me cringe. I feel like it’s one of the more degrading comments you could say to a deaf person. We have the ability to do anything but hear.

“What’s the sign for (swear/dirty word)?”

One of the most annoying questions that I frequently get. When I meet a person who asks me that, it makes me feel like they’re not really interested in getting to know me as a person. I’m not your walking personal dictionary. Look it up yourself.

“I want to learn sign language.”

This is the most overused phrase that deaf people get. It's flattering when people are serious about wanting to learn sign language. Unfortunately, the majority of people who have said this to me ended up not doing it. Learning sign language is a commitment, so don’t say that unless you really mean it.

I do understand that most of time when those things are said to me, it’s not people’s intention to offend me. I’m hoping this list helps everyone to think about what they ask before meeting a deaf person for the first time.

Now here’s a list of responses I’ve got from people once they found out that I’m deaf:

“I’m so sorry, I will pray for you.”

“Oh, so he’s your hearing aid.” (referring to my family member).

“Have you tried antibiotics?”

“Haha, yeah right, you’re pretending to not understand me.”

“Can I try on your hearing aids?”

“Wow, your family is hearing? How is that possible?”

“Are those radios in your ears or something?”

All opinion in this blog are my own. It does not reflect the opinions of other deaf members.

Snow Day in Mystic

Hooray for some snow! Mystic, Connecticut always looks magical with the snow so I headed to Downtown to capture the scenes. These photos were taken on February 9, 2025. Please make request here if you would like to purchase any images.

USS Virginia homecoming 12/20/24

USS Virginia returned home from their deployment on December 20, 2024 to Groton, Connecticut. I’ve photographed several homecomings — there’s something special about each one of them. This was first holiday homecoming and the spirit was high! The sailors got in the holiday spirit as there were a couple who dressed as Santa and Buddy the Elf.

This homecoming also got to me when I saw the sign saying “Welcome Home Hailey”. I’m assuming Hailey to be a female. It was only recent that females were allowed to go on submarine deployments. As I have a family member actively working for U.S. Navy here in Groton. Knowing that my loved one had a part in making that happen and to see the results was something I couldn’t explain. In one word, proud.

I’m always grateful to everyone who serves for our country. Wishing the sailors and their loved ones a very Happy Holidays!

A Christmas stay at Harbor View Landing

December always bring out all of the fun festivities in Mystic, Connecticut! As a local I love to check out all what Mystic has to offer including accommodations. I’ve heard a lot about Harbor View Landing over the years. Once it was used as a filming set on Hallmark’s Mystic Christmas, I was even more intrigued to check out Harbor View Landing! The hosts were gracious and gifted me a night stay after I reached out to them.

ABOUT HARBOR VIEW LANDING

Located in West Mystic, Connecticut right on the banks of Mystic River. Harbor View Landing is a compound on 2 acres consisting of cottages, houses and even a riverboat! The coastal retreat offers you amazing waterfront views within 1 mile driving distance of Downtown Mystic. There is a parking area for all the resort guests. During warmer months, there are kayaks and bicycles available for the guests to use.

MY FIRST IMPRESSION

The road leading down to Harbor View Landing is mostly private so the whole compound is isolated from rest of the neighborhood. I was in awe of how beautiful all the cottages and houses were! I loved how each house had a coastal themed symbol on it such as lobster, whale, etc. Walking up to my unit — The WATERFRONT views! Wow, it was gorgeous and stunning. The day I went was overcast, I only can imagine how beautiful it is on a sunny blue sky day! The inside of the unit was beautiful. I knew it would be after seeing it on the Mystic Christmas movie and various photos on Instagram from others who have stayed there. I loved the coastal theme through out the unit, from the art on the wall, to doorknob details, and the shades of coastal blue. The kitchen was so cozy and cute!

MY STAY

I had the first floor of the Bluff House during December for a night. It was a chilly wintery day, so I had to turn up the temperature (I easily get cold!) And I was impressed with how quick the unit heated up. It was very cozy in the living room with the waterfront views. I enjoyed sitting on the couch watching TV and looking out at the water! The bedroom was large and spacious. There was an extra room off the bedroom with a daybed/couch. I thought it was a cute corner for reading a good book. I spent some time in the kitchen recreating a scene from the Mystic Christmas movie — frosting sugar cookies. It was a fun time, especially being in the actual filming location for that scene! The first floor also had a wrap around patio that had chairs you could sit on to enjoy the water views. If only it was warmer for me to do so! I did get to see the full moon from the patio the night I stayed there. I thought the unit overall was just the perfect size — not too small, had enough space.

GOOD TO KNOW ABOUT HARBOR VIEW LANDING

The unit I stayed in didn’t have a stove. It wasn’t an issue with all of the restaurants nearby in Downtown Mystic. Mystic Market West is also a 5 minute walk — where you can get sandwiches, sides, salads, groceries, etc.

If you’re coming to have a Hallmark Christmas stay — Mystic Christmas was filmed on the first floor of the Bluff House and the Nantucket Cottage.

Great communication from the hosts! I had an issue with the unit and texted them. Within minutes, I heard back from them and they resolved the issue.

WHY YOU SHOULD STAY AT HARBOR VIEW LANDING

It’s a perfect spot for weddings, a family reunion, birthday party or a retreat. I’m amazed how this is located in Mystic — it feels like a vacation resort. I had to catch myself a few times remembering that I’m still in Mystic. If it caught the eyes of Hallmark production to film there, you can understand why it’s a beautiful setting for your stay!

BOOKING INFORMATION

Harbor View Landing website

Fall scenes at Whittle's Farm

Whittle’s Farm is truly a gem in Mystic, Connecticut. I’ve been pumpkin patchin’ here for over a decade. I love to come back during a quiet hour without people around to capture everything FALL. There is never a shortage of pumpkins!

FireFighter returns to Mystic

Photographed on October 28, 2024 when FireFighter returned to Mystic Seaport Museum from maintenance work in Rhode Island.

A stay at Farmhouse Mystic

One thing about me is that I love to see how people decorate their homes. In Mystic, there are several Airbnbs and it’s always so interesting to see how the owners tie in Mystic into the theme of the home decor. Farmhouse Mystic was no expectation. I’ve followed Michelle, the owner of Farmhouse Mystic, for a couple years (Farmhouse started in 2022) and I’ve admired the beauty of the house through Instagram. Needlessly, I was thrilled to finally have the chance to stay there. Michelle graciously gifted me a two nights stay in the Farmhouse.

Farmhouse in Mystic, Connecticut.

ABOUT FARMHOUSE

Farmhouse is located in Mystic, within walking distance of Mystic Seaport and Downtown. A historical farmhouse built in 1876 with 3 bedrooms (4 beds) and 2 full bathrooms. It can welcome up to 8 guests who book for a minimum of 3 nights. A beautiful coastal farmhouse style is decorated throughout the home. The house has a sunroom, front porch, back patio, spacious yard with a bonfire pit and a private driveway.

Checking in!

The upstairs living room.

Beautiful natural light.

One of the three bedrooms.

The living room downstairs is well stocked with books!

MY FIRST IMPRESSION

It was easy to find the house. I was greeted by Michelle, who always greet every guest that stays at Farmhouse. She showed me around the house and made sure that I knew where everything was. She also explains about the attractions of the Mystic area to out of town visitors. She left me coffee/milk/cream, alcohol (beer/wine), and a seasonal treat! I don’t know if Michelle realizes how addicted I am to maple syrup but she left me maple flavored popcorn.

I was blown away by the beautiful details she put into this house. I saw a lot of Mystic throughout: books, wall prints, products from local businesses, and many more. I also loved the coastal farmhouse theme. I was in love with many objects around the house that I took notes for my home!

The house is very clean and well organized as things are labeled throughout the different rooms. Michelle makes herself available if her guests run into any issues.

Having dinner in the kitchen on the first night!

Artistic painting of Farmhouse.

The wrapped sunroom.

MY STAY

My favorite parts of the stay was the huge bathtub, the upstairs living room and the kitchen. I spent a lot of time eating in the kitchen and enjoying the beautiful natural lighting (no matter what time of the day). I took advantage of the bathtub both nights I was there for — Michelle even left a bottle of bubble bath! The living room upstairs is so beautiful that I was in awe of the decor. I enjoyed a good book at the end of the day on the cozy couch.

It was also difficult to pick which bedroom to stay in because they all were beautiful and inviting! Michelle showed me where the sun rises and sets, I picked the bedroom where the morning light would come in. During my stay, the full moon made its appearance so I fell asleep under it shining in, then woke up to the peaceful morning light!

I had some down time to look through the Farmhouse History Book. It contained the history of the house including property deeds and past owner through the years.  There was also some historical information about the area and its notable figures. I loved that!

Always checking out the books selections!

Morning time with news and coffee.

Prepping for a bonfire.

WHAT PEOPLE ARE SAYING ABOUT FARMHOUSE

During my stay at Farmhouse, I took a peek through the guest book (I always love to see what others have to say about their experiences!) and there was a common theme of: charming and quaint house, amenities it has to offer, comfortable place to relax, the details in the house. Many families have stayed here for college graduations (UConn Avery Point, Coast Guard Academy and Conn College). There were also many girls weekends/bachelorette weekends. One family even celebrated Thanksgiving there!

Endless compliments about the host! Michelle leaves personalized gifts for the guests. I read in the guestbook that she did a dinosaur hunt for a family with kids, put up holiday decors for a family who stayed there during the holidays and even had Coast Guard Academy cupcakes for a graduate’s family!!

On the Airbnb listing, the Farmhouse is highly ranked in the top 1% of homes based on reviews, ratings, and reliability. On VRBO listing, there’s a rating of 10 for exceptional. It is a guest favorite and one of the most loved homes in the Mystic area!

Enjoying the maple popcorn the host left for me!

WHY YOU SHOULD STAY AT FARMHOUSE

The location of Farmhouse is in an unbeatable location in Mystic. While it is close enough to Downtown, you still have space away from the bustle. It is in a quiet neighborhood. You have the choice to drive or walk to Downtown, it is about 6-10 minute walk (depending on where specifically). It’s also close to Mystic Seaport Museum where you can easily spend an entire day there.

Mystic is known for the restaurants. There are many nearby Farmhouse. If you enjoy Chinese, you’re right around the corner from Wokery in Mystic. A short walk to Lis Bake Shop for breakfast/coffee, Engine Room or Anthony J’s Bistro for lunch/dinner.

Michelle is the ultimate host (direct words from a guest’s comment). She truly has thought of all the amenities you would need for your stay. She goes beyond to include many little things you would’ve not thought of. I always have to travel with a lint roller (dog owners, if you know, you know!) and I do not recall ever seeing them in other stays that I’ve been to. With the bonfire pit in the backyard, there’s even s’mores kit (marshmallows, graham crackers, Hershey chocolates, Reeses cup and rice Krispies treats). The house didn’t have just the basics, but everything! That’s why it feels truly like home away from home.

Looking at the weather outside to decide what to wear for the day!

Morning in the kitchen.

One of products from local businesses in Mystic in the house.

I really enjoyed my stay at Farmhouse and it was hard to leave! I will look back at this stay as a great memory. I badly wanted to share about the stay WHILE I was there. I never do in real time due to safety reasons, but that’s how excited I was to share all about the Farmhouse! Thank you Michelle for being such a gracious host. All opinions are my own.

Got to see one of the most beautiful sunset from the front porch!

Cod-tober is my favorite season: Fall trip to Cape Cod

I’ve gone to Cape Cod for a few summers now and I knew I’d want to come back to see it during fall. I made the trip during a long weekend in October 2024. This is what my weekend looked liked:

Day 1

Chatham is my favorite town to walk around on the Cape. The downtown was festive with pumpkins decorated everywhere - the church had an adorable pumpkin patch too! I came across the Witch Paddle at the nearby beach which was a fun surprise!

When I stay on the Cape, I’m in Brewster and minutes away from the beach. I’ve always gone to the beach for every sunset. This particular sunset was amazing with the golden hour light AND my pup was welcomed to be on the beach (usually no dogs allowed during summers).

Day 2

Chatham Fish Pier is probably my most favorite spot in Chatham. I had to go there at sunrise. There’s always something to photograph. The fishing vessels, the low tide, beautiful colors of sand/water in the distance, and even the seals! It never fails to see something amazing there.

General stores on the Cape are adorable! I particularly love Brewster General Store and Pleasant Lake General Store in Harwich. Both towns are lovely to drive around. There are plenty of antique shops in Brewster.

It’s a tradition with every visit to the Cape, to do a beach bonfire. You are allowed to do a beach bonfire on Cape Cod National Seashore beaches with a special permit you can get from the Visitor Center (over phone or in person). The seals always make an appearance during the bonfire — it’s so cute!

Day 3

It rained all day so it was a low key day indoors until sunset. The clouds started to break at sunset so I ran over to Brewster Beach in hopes of a colorful sky. I didn’t get one but it was pretty to capture the stormy mood at the beach and I was surprised with plenty of piping plover birds everywhere!

Day 4

Before departing Cape Cod, I had to see a sunrise so I drove over to Bank Street Beach in Harwichport. I was not disappointed! Gorgeous colors in the sky. I’ve never ever seen this amount of horseshoe crabs in my life. There were several piping plovers again.

It was such a memorable weekend! The Cape is truly beautiful during any season. I got a lot more of time on the beach during the fall trip because my pup was allowed. I enjoyed seeing more of the sunrises/sunsets on the Cape. Until next time!

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