Mystic Outdoor Art Festival

One of the biggest events in Downtown Mystic is the Mystic Outdoor Art Festival (MOAF). The annual event isn’t the one to miss! Greater Mystic Chamber of Commerce hosts this long running festival for two days, Saturday and Sunday. It is free to enjoy the art festival!

The 2024 MOAF is happening this upcoming weekend August 10 [10am-6pm] and 11 [10am-5pm].

The festival always brings thousands of visitors to Mystic to enjoy this event. There are many, many artists of all kinds. According to the website, 200+ artists - with a variety of paintings, photography, oil & watercolors, sculptures and many, many more!

The ~2 miles long route runs from Cottrell St —> Holmes St —> Bay St —> Mystic Seaport Museum. The art show is in the shipyard section of Mystic Seaport Museum. There is no museum admission fee for this portion of the grounds.

I’ve attended this festival for over a decade now. It’s always something I look forward to because there’s always something new every year! Around my house, there are many art pieces from over the years that I’ve purchased at the MOAF. There’s always something for everyone!

Also a tip: This is a rain or shine event. If it happens that the day of festival is very sunny, there isn’t a lot of shade along the route so wear some sunscreen and stay hydrated!

Don’t miss this fun event in Downtown Mystic!

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stay at Inn at Ocean Avenue in New London, ct

Whenever I drove to Ocean Beach Park in New London, Connecticut, I’d notice this beautiful historical home. The house was built in 1914, a brick-covered stately home with white columns and trimmings. Surrounded by a rock wall. It underwent renovations when the current owner bought it in 2015, the local newspaper covered the updates since it was going to be a bed and breakfast named Inn at Ocean Avenue.

I’ve been staying in local accommodations so I can recommend to visitors who come to Southeastern CT. I knew Inn at Ocean Avenue would be one that I would want to recommend for visitors who planned to come to New London. I contacted the owner, Allan Goldfarb who graciously gifted me a one night stay at Inn at Ocean Avenue.

Walking in the Inn takes you into the spacious foyer which was beautiful. I immediately noticed the staircase and chandelier. Allan’s very friendly dog greeted me! The inn has 6 rooms available to stay in. Since it was off-season, I was fortunate to get to see all the rooms. Each room comes with a private full bathroom (with heated floors!) and were very spacious. I was impressed with how spacious it was - each room had at least a desk or lounge chair. There were closets in each room too. Allan did a wonderful job of preserving the original fireplaces, moldings and fixtures. The windows in all of the rooms are also able to be opened or you can enjoy the full central air in the room.

I stayed in the Isabel Chapman suite (often used as a bridal suite) with a king sized bed, two lounge chairs, ottoman, TV and double door closet. The bathroom was huge! I loved the subway tiled shower in all the rooms. The bed was very cozy. All the rooms at Inn at Ocean Avenue were really clean and maintained.

Inn at Ocean Avenue also had two large living rooms, an indoor sunroom, outdoor back patio, a reading cubby and a dining room. The inn also had 4 acres of land. Allan shared that he hosted weddings and parties. The back outdoor patio was large, and I definitely could see its potential for parties/weddings. The inn grounds also come with parking spots if you drive there.

The stay at Inn at Ocean Avenue includes breakfast. The dining room had a large table that seated 8. I sat down in the dining room, mesmerized by the beautiful floral wallpaper and dark wood paneling. Allan was very accommodating to my gluten-free sensitivity. He offered to cook an omelet or pancakes but I had only asked for scrambled eggs not wanting to inconvenience Allan! He provided me a breakfast of an omelet, roasted tomato, fruit, gluten free toast and gluten free chocolate chip muffins. There was a choice of drinks - coffee, tea, orange juice, etc. I left for the day with my belly full and satisfied.

Inn at Ocean Avenue is located near the water in New London, only a short 5 minute drive from Ocean Beach Park. New London has plenty of restaurants near by, rich history and a strong art community. There are many artists from performers, musicians, painters, muralists to many more that come to New London. Garde Arts Center and Eugene O’Neill Theater Center are some of the well known venues for creative minds. Allan shared that he hosted a team of writers and musicians from O’Neill Theater Center for a month at the inn. It was interesting to hear how they were up at 2 AM with ideas that had to be written down. A Broadway show was even created as a result! To think about the creativity that took place there, if only those walls could talk.

There are many more recommendations of what to do near by in New London that I couldn’t list them all here. I previously shared it here: New London Guide. Also near by: Waterford Guide. Mystic, Stonington, Groton, Old Lyme and Niantic are within a half hour driving distance of the inn. This inn is an ideal stay for couples/adults/girls trip/mother-and-daughter getaway. I enjoyed my stay at Inn at Ocean Avenue in New London. Book a stay here at their website: Inn at Ocean Avenue.

Thank you Allan for the stay at Inn at Ocean Avenue. All opinions are my own.

The Ultimate Guide to New London, Connecticut

New London, CT is one of the oldest seaport city on Thames River. A city filled with rich history, art and music, eateries, diversity and many more.

Here are some suggestions of what to do in New London:

Custom House Maritime Museum

New London has a rich history, being one of the busiest whaling port during the 19th century. The museum has a lot of exhibits to explain the history. Located in the heart of New London’s Bank Street and housed in the former historic Custom House built in 1833, it is worthwhile to visit. The gift shop is also a fun spot for nautical goods.

Art Community

The city is known for its art. You can see the murals in several spots. If you walk around a bit, you can enjoy them. My particular favorite is the whales (of course!) at the intersection of State Street and Eugene O’Neill Drive. In downtown, there are several art galleries to visit, one of these is housed in a former firehouse! I love seeing artworks with the Ledge Light (one of my favorite lighthouses). There is definitely a lot of pride in reserving the art culture in New London.

Garde Arts Center

One of the most fascinating venue to visit. A former movie theater during the 1920’s is used as a multi space for performing shows, musicals, education, movies, events and many more. I’ve attended a few shows and a book signing here. I admire the interior details!

Oldest Courthouse in CT

Across the street from Garde Arts Center is the oldest courthouse in Connecticut. It was built in 1784. The wood framed structure with wooden clapboards, gambrel roof and cupola is just a beautiful sight!

The Starr Street Historical District

A block of homes that were built during the 1800’s. Each home has a unique detail, it’s a fun small street to walk up and down and just admire the homes. You can easily type in Starr Street Historical District on Google, it’ll show you several websites with facts about some of the houses and the map of the walking route.

The Waterfront

There is a pier with a boardwalk where many go to enjoy the views of Thames River.

Fort Trumbull

Located on the waterfront, an old battlefield was built in 1839 to protect New London Harbor from British attacks. It is currently a state park for people can enjoy. There is a pier in front of Fort Trumbull where many people fish. The fort itself is opened to the public Wednesdays-Sundays (Memorial Day-Labor Day) from 9am-5pm for a fee. The top platform of the fort gives you a panoramic view of Thames River.

Cross Sound Ferry

Over the summers they also offer lighthouse cruises. The lighthouse cruise is a 2 hours long ride taking you around to see all of the lighthouses and sights. I’ve took the cruise twice and enjoyed it so much! They also offer daily ferry rides to Block Island, RI; Fishers Island and Orient Point, NY.

Ocean Beach Park

It’s one of the nicest beach in Connecticut, with a half mile long boardwalk. There is a daily fee to get in the beach during the summers. Nearby is a mini golf course, a swimming pool, gym, arcade and snack bar. Ocean Beach Park hosts a lot of events such as movies on the beach and classic cars shows. A few years ago, I wanted to watch a movie on the beach to check off my bucket list - they were very accommodating and put captions on. I was very grateful for the experience!

Michael’s Dairy

Not too far from Ocean Beach Park, this well established institution is the best spot for ice cream in New London. It is located on Mitchell College next to the red barn.

Muddy Waters Cafe

A great breakfast/lunch spot! It’s a fun spot with many movie posters, nautical photos plastered all over the walls making it a fun Instagrammable spot. If you come to New London by train, it isn’t far from the station.

Captain Scott’s Lobster Dock

If you’re in the mood for seafood, this is a good spot! It is a hidden gem located in a marina with outdoor dining area. The lines can be crazy long but the food is so worth the wait.

Fiddlehead’s Food Co-op

A cooperatively owned grocery store. You do not need to be a member to shop there. They offer many local goods and delicious produce. Always a friendly service every time I drop in to find gluten free goods!

New London Public Library

Every time I visit a town, I always stop in the library. This particular library is housed in a historical 1889 Richardsonian Romanesque style building. It was added to the National Register of Historic Places in 1970, so it’s worthwhile to visit this beautiful site!

Mike’s Famous Harley Davidson

Whenever my parents visit from Upstate NY, my dad who is a motorcycle enthusiast enjoys going to Mike’s in New London. Housed in 1938 Coca-Cola factory, it is one of the largest motorcycle selection in New England. The storefront is decorated with old Coca-Cola memorabilia keeping the building’s history alive. New London/Groton has a strong military presence, home to the United States Coast Guard Academy, New London Sub Base and Electric Boat. Mike’s is a huge supporter of the military, hosting their well known fundraising event Toys for Tots.

Sail with Tall Tales

Go sailing on Thames River on Tall Tales — a 35 ft sailboat with Captain Stu! The boat is located at the marina right next to Captain Scott’s Lobster Dock. Captain Stu is an interesting person with many stories from his life experiences! Read more about my experience here.

Sailfest [July]

An annual event in New London which occurs every July. It runs for few days, with one of the biggest fireworks show on the Saturday night. The festival is on the waterfront and on Bank Street. Many vendors, rides, food, concerts, and more. It is one of the biggest events in New London, where many people from all over comes to enjoy this festival. Sailfest 2022 is taking place on July 8-10.

Where to Stay in New London

I had a wonderful stay at Inn at Ocean Avenue — a historical bed and breakfast inn built in 1914. It is located near Ocean Beach Park. Read more about it here.

New London has so MANY to offer, that I didn’t even cover everything in this guide. Be sure to follow Visit New London here to find more tailored to your interests. It’s a city that definitely has something for everyone!

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baby hears for the first time!

At some point, you probably have seen a viral video of a baby hearing for the first time. Those viral videos have been floating around the internet for the last decade now. I’d love for those videos to vanish forever.

Most often the videos would show a baby [or adult] hearing for the first time when their cochlear implants have been activated or hearing aids turned on. I cringe every time I see those videos. Why? The ‘inspiration porn’ is not reality. It implies that the hearing loss is a problem to be fixed. The videos always come with comments such as “Awwww!”, “I’m crying! I’m so happy!”, “This is so amazing!”, etc. How do you think a deaf person who is reading those comments would feel? It makes me feel like I’m uninspiring just because I chose to not wear hearing aids or cochlear implants.

It’s disappointing that those videos always get millions of views, likes, shares. It’s not about the numbers but that amount of people that are not learning that it’s not a cure to deafness. Hearing aids and cochlear implants both are a tool for hearing loss and will never cure it 100%.

Those videos also don’t show what happens after — the years of challenges and training to re-learn sounds with the devices. It requires a LOT of time and adjustment for the brain to connect with sounds and recognize what the sounds are. Sometimes it even takes years! The sounds also never will sound natural like the way hearing people hear.

I don’t think people also think of this… when the hearing aids/cochlear implants are off — they’re still deaf! They don’t go in the shower/water with the devices. The batteries dies. They don’t sleep with the devices on.

I understand that hearing people feel like they can relate because they know what it is to hear. They can’t imagine a life without hearing. I just want you to consider what this does to the deaf community and think before you hit that like button or share it. I wish there were more of videos of other life’s firsts such as laugh, sign, food, vacation, etc. We, the deaf people still experience the joy of life with other firsts!

Small Business Saturday

The anticipation of Thanksgiving this week is making me excited to celebrate my traditions. Small Business Saturday always kicks off the holiday season! It starts with Santa coming to town on the tugboat, bustling shops and the annual holiday lighted boat parade. The community in Mystic puts on a good display of holiday decorations throughout the town too!

It’s not difficult to celebrate Small Business Saturday in Mystic with all of independently owned shops. I love supporting the mom and pop shops. Can’t get any more friendlier customer service from these shops! I’m going to name off a few of my favorites that you must visit:

Downtown Mystic

Mystic Knotwork is my favorite shop creating nautical knot souvenirs. I’ve already dedicated a blog about them, so read all about it here.

Tidal River Clothing Co. is a long fixture in downtown Mystic since 2004. There you will find the best selection of Patagonia clothing as well as other brands such as Helly Hansen and Prana. This is also the best shop to get your Mystic tees if you’re looking for one!

Hang The Moon, a shop for the women in your lives! Find women’s gifts made by women such as candles, jewelry, socks, ornaments, planters, mugs, etc. There’s so much options and the best part? Most of the shop is organized by theme. There’s the plants/garden section, mystical section, dog/cat mom section, you get the gist! They also have local artisans goods.

The Black Dog General Store and Sea Bags might be considered “chain stores” with few shops across New England. They are a New England operated businesses through! The Black Dog in Mystic is the only Connecticut shop. There’s clothing for the entire family and even your dogs! The staff in there is super friendly, always welcoming everyone. It’s not a surprise that I often find myself in there! Sea Bags is the same with friendly staff always ready to help you locate an item. Pick up a bag or tote made from recycled sails.

Main Street Soap Emporium definitely is the best bath and body shop! Here you can find a variety of soaps, hair products, lotions, bath bombs, oils, body washes and many more! The prices are amazing too - affordable everything is under $40. This is a perfect shop for stocking stuffers!

Mystic Army Navy Store is always a must stop for my husband. It is a military surplus store with apparel and accessories. They do have an impressive selection, so if you have a military enthusiast in your family, be sure to grab them a gift from here! They also have patches.

Bank Square Books is the community bookstore with a huge selection of books! I love popping in there to check out the locals section - books about the area or local authors. It’s neatly organized so it’s not challenging to find a book. If you do need help, the staff is friendly! The bookstore has a cozy environment, there is seating to read a chapter or relax.

Mystic Pet Shop I have been a loyal supporter of this store ever since I got my pup. You can’t beat how amazing the owners are. They remember me when I come in monthly to pick up the dog food (even know the exact brand!). In the past, I’ve messaged them on social media to inquiry if they carried a specific item - they were quick to respond. Don’t cross this off your list if you’re not a local - there are other items for you to buy. There’s souvenirs for your pooches! My favorite are the Mystic collars and leashes (of course I got one for mine!). There’s also a selection of toys and treats too.

Finer Line Gallery is a fine art gallery and custom framing shop. They also carry local artists’ artworks. I have purchased several Mystic scenery prints from this shop that hangs proudly around my home. There’s a great selection of nautical artwork if you’re looking to add lobsters, ships or lighthouses to your home (or for someone else!).

Marine Consignment of Mystic is the shop for the DIY lovers. When I have a nautical project for the home, I stop in here to find a nautical hardware (typically from boats) or look for nautical antiques. There’s always something in this shop to bring home.

Mallove’s of Mystic has been my favorite jewelry shop since I moved here. There’s always a beautiful selection of jewelry. The staff at this shop are also so friendly! Always welcoming you in like you’re an old friend. I recommend getting your engagement/wedding rings at Mallove’s. I would’ve got mine from here if my husband didn’t get a matching set from a shop in Upstate NY where I’m from. My husband did purchased his wedding band from Mallove’s! 

Spice & Tea Exchange has an assortment of spices and teas. There’s so many unique blends, it’s fun to try new once out while cooking at home. Most often when you visit this shop, they have samples of teas and dips. If you have a foodie lover to shop for, there are many gift sets already made up of their products for you to buy!

Burgee Mystic located in The Standard (yellow building next door to Sift Bake Shop). A classic New England coastal shop with men & women’s clothing, house decor items and many more. I love the nautical set up of the shop! I’ve picked up some home decor items from here. I also always eye their cute apparel sporting their shop logo (the burgee)!

Trade Winds Gallery is a fine art gallery carrying a collection of artworks from New England artists. If you’re looking for original antique nautical maps, this shop is the place that has it all! Most of the maps are local but if there’s a specific one you’re looking for, you can shoot them a message. The owner is willing to work with you to find what you’re looking for. One of my favorite nautical photographs, that is hanging in my home, came from here. They also do framing if you’re in need.

Company of Craftsmen carries a collection of handmade goods from mostly New England artists. There’s a small selection from artists who are from beyond New England. I once purchased a cleat necklace that was created by someone in Upstate NY (not far from where I grew up!). The goods includes pottery, wood, jewelry, glass and many more. This shop is my favorite for handmade goods. They have a lot of Mystic related items which is perfect to add to your home or give to someone who loves Mystic as much as I do! I’ve even got my eyes on this nautical ship made out of glass sitting in the front window!

Pennywise is my favorite women’s clothing shop in SECT. It is a consignment store, I sell my clothes there too. I opened an account and brought in some clothes. The staff sort through the clothes and pick the ones that will likely be sold in their store. I love shopping there, as most of the clothes are in great condition! They carry a few of my favorite brands too. This shop is dog-friendly! *Located near Mystic Seaport Museum (tugboat entrance).

Just Mystic is the spot to get your Mystic tee or sweatshirt. All of their apparel are simple and classic sporting the names of local towns around here (Mystic, Noank, Stonington, GLP). I love my Mystic long sleeve tee and find myself wearing it often! The shop is owned by siblings - a sister and a brother. Every time I’ve popped in the store, they’re always so friendly! Be sure to follow them on Instagram.

No Other Books Like This is located across the street from the train station. I love popping in this used-books shop! The owner is always friendly, sometimes you will get a visit from the shop dog, Benny. I love when he follows me around while I’m browsing! The bookstore is very cozy and has an impressive collection of rare/antique books!

Portside is my most favorite coastal home decor store. Formerly located in Noank Shipyard, Wendy the owner made the move to Downtown Mystic recently. Right next door to Engine Room restaurant, this shop has beautiful collection of coastal farmhouse decor and gifts. I’m obsessed with Farm + Sea candles - they’re the only candles I’ll have in my house! Read more about the shop here.

Olde Mistick Village

Irish Eyes has been my most favorite shop in Mystic since the day one! Carrying all Irish merchandise from clothing, home decor items, jewelry, to gifts. So many items have been purchased from this shop over the years. I love that they even carry some food products from Ireland that you can’t find elsewhere in the United States. They have BELLEEK collection there too. The jewelry they have is always beautiful.

Becca Rose always smells so good when you walk in there! There’s so many goat milk soaps to pick from, they have signs that describe what the soaps help with, things like stress relief, anxiety, headaches, etc. It’s so helpful in picking the right ones! The staff also can help you if you ask them too - they are VERY knowledgeable about the products they sell in the shop.

Franklin’s General Store has been a long time favorite shop in Mystic. Its the typical general store carrying clothing, books, gifts, food, home decor items, and best of all… FUDGE. The fudge is freshly made in their shop daily. There’s seasonal flavors too which are listed on their website. I look forward to February every year for the cherry fudge. My mouth is watery thinking about it! You can sample the fudge too, which will help you to pick the one (or a few) to bring home or to buy for someone!

Sofia’s Mystical Christmas is full with ornaments of all kinds. If you’re looking for a firefighter themed ornament, they got it. If you’re looking for a teacher ornament, they got it. If you’re looking for Irish ornaments, they got it. Literally, any kind ornaments… they are mostly likely to have it! It’s organized by category so it is easy to navigate through the store to find your perfect ornament.

Sticky Situations is where you get the honey! There’s a variety of honey. A few of my favorites include cinnamon honey, dark chocolate honey, peppermint honey and blackberry honey. You’re probably thinking, what would I put that on? Right? No fears, there are helpful staff in the shop to recommend what to put it on or what to eat with it. There are usually signs by the products with recommendations too. You can sample the honey! They sell other items such as olive oil, vinegar and syrup.

Alice’s Haunted Little Bookshop is a fun shop to visit! I’m amazed by the decor - very Victorian style. There is a curated collection of unique books, especially those that were forgotten or weren’t on any bestseller lists. It’s not just books, but gifts, accessories and more are sold in the shop!

Cloak and Wand is very Harry Potter like! It is a shop with a strong wizards and witches theme, completed with a potion bar. The potion bar is a custom soda/hot chocolate bar where you can customize your ‘magic drink’. This is definitely a must to visit!

There are PLENTY of shops in Mystic to shop for Small Business Saturday! I couldn’t even list them all, but there’s always something for everyone. I love the variety that Mystic offers. It’s always so much fun to shop with amazing customer service there. It definitely motivates me to keep buying from the mom-and-pop shops whenever I can. Don’t forget to visit these shops during the holidays too! Downtown Mystic hosts the holiday stroll in early December when shops stays open later for last minute shopping with refreshments. Olde Mistick Village hosts their Festival of Lights event. The whole village is lighted up with luminaries, it’s so beautiful to see. I love the holidays time in Mystic, CT!

Happy Deaf Awareness Month!

September is Deaf Awareness Month. The reason why we have that is to bring awareness of deaf community, including communication needs, accessibility, etc. There’s so many topics within the deaf culture! Many do not realize that deaf people are highly diverse with a wide spectrum. There is a range of communication preferences, background experiences and identities.

Did you know that there are 70 million deaf people worldwide? Yet, there is no two deaf people who are alike. Some may prefer to talk, some prefer to sign. Each of us have different level of hearing loss.

That’s why it can be nerve-wrecking for hearing people to be approached by or interact with deaf people. How do you know what to do with them?

Patience.

That’s the most important. Be patient. The communication may be different from what you’re used to and may require some effort.

Eye contact.

Deaf people rely on eye contact. A lot. Make sure that you always face them. Some are able to lip-read, so they’ll need to see your mouth.

Don’t assume.

Not all deaf people can lip-read through, so do not assume that they can. Don’t put the burden of communication on them. Ask what their preferred method of communication is. It may be paper and pencil, using some kind of phone app, or whatever.

Don’t give up.

Do not give up if it’s challenging or struggling. The important thing is that the deaf people have the information. It doesn’t matter how it’s relayed, we just want to be understood. We’re humans too.

Don’t treat us differently.

We aren’t different from anyone else you interact with, just our hearing loss. We don’t want to be treated like a child or be made to feel incapable.

As a deaf person, I know I have to be patient too. I’m very willing to work with anyone to have effective communication. I won’t judge people for any mistakes because I understand that you don’t interact with deaf people regularly. I don’t want anyone to ever feel nervous. I would think many deaf people would have same understanding as we DO interact with hearing people on a daily basis.

Read more awareness blogs under DEAF tab on www.knotsoloud.com. I appreciate you being here to take the time to learn and be an ally for the deaf community!

5 kayaking spots in North Stonington, CT

This summer I made some reels for the tourism account - Visit Eastern Connecticut on Instagram. Recently, I shared about the 5 kayaking spots in North Stonington. I thought I’d share them here too because I really enjoyed kayaking in North Stonington!

First of all, North Stonington is a rural agricultural town so I’d never guess that there were FIVE spots for kayaking there. There are several lakes and ponds hidden in the town.

Here are the 5 kayaking spots:

Billings Lake

This was probably the busiest spot - a lake big enough for boating and kayaking. There was also a large rock where many people were swimming near and jumping off of. On this lake, there are also many private residences.

Parking: The parking lot was very small, but luckily I found a spot that day. My advice for this one would be to go there EARLY!

I enjoyed kayaking on this lake, but I was uncomfortable because of the high activity with boaters and jet skiing. I can’t hear them coming from behind me (I’m deaf) so I had to be on high alert. The views were beautiful!

Anderson Pond

Anderson Pond is right next door to Billings Lake. A lot smaller pond with less traffic.

Parking: Small but not crowded. The launch area was C-shaped, this is 1 way only and allows drop off near the water. The launch was a little tough. There wasn’t any ramp, but pavement that goes into the water.

Anderson Pond was the most open pond, where you could see the entire body at once. The views were nice. I found this spot to be the most quiet.

Wyassup Lake

A large lake similar to Billings Lake. There are several houses by the water, a popular spot for fishing boats.

Parking: A decent sized parking lot with a nice launch ramp. There were many off-road parking on the side of the road directly across from the parking lot.

Wyassup Lake was gorgeous. I really enjoyed kayaking here. I wasn’t as stressed about the boaters as it was very spacious. Many boaters were anchored and fishing.

Long Pond/Lantern Hill Pond

In the reel, I mis-labeled it as Lantern Hill Pond, it actually is Long Pond. Both Lantern Hill Pond and Long Pond are located right next to each other.

Parking: Lantern Hill Pond had the trickiest parking area/launch. I was unable to launch the kayak into Lantern Hill Pond because it was covered in lilies and weed. Long Pond had more accessible launch and a huge parking lot! I wouldn’t have to ever worry about finding a parking spot at Long Pond.

I don’t recommend Lantern Hill Pond for kayaking. Long Pond is another quiet place for kayaking, but big enough to explore! I enjoyed watching the wildlife here, there were plenty of geese and birds.

Lake of Isles

There is a pond in the middle of the golf course at Foxwoods! It is the most shallow pond. This seems to be the most popular spot for kayakers.

Parking: This one had the best parking lot. A spacious and paved parking lot. There were a lot room at the launch ramp, where there’s even a dock.

Lake of Isles was the most fun spot for kayaking. A lot to see with the golfers golfing, golf carts passing over the lake via a wooden bridge, the shallow water allowed you to see the seaweed/turtles/etc. There were many kayakers there the day I went.

THE VERDICT:

My most favorite was… Lake of Isles! Wyassaup Lake was a close follow up. Overall, all lakes and ponds were gorgeous for kayaking. All of them are surrounded by trees so I kept thinking how stunning they all will be in October during the foliage!

Hope you enjoy kayaking there!

Sift Bake Shop Mystic

Happy National Chocolate Chip Cookie Day!

Without a question, my favorite gluten free/dairy free (vegan) chocolate chip cookie is from Sift Bake Shop in Mystic, CT! It is the most delicious cookie and it’s so worth it.

I thought I’d take this opportunity to share more about Sift Bake Shop. If you visit Mystic, CT - you can’t leave without a visit there. Located on Water Street, this French focused bakery is known for their savory treats. Croissants, macarons, cookies, bread, and many more!

The owner, Pastry Chef Adam Young, competed on the Food Network’s “Best Baker in America” TV show in 2018. He ended up winning! It was quite exciting for Mystic and all Sift fans to have our local chef win! This definitely brought more visitors to Mystic to visit Sift and to see Chef Adam.

It’s been amazing to watch the progress of Sift Bake Shop, I remember when they first opened 7 years ago. The shop was a lot smaller and just had one location! Today, they have more locations in Watch Hill, RI and Niantic, CT. They also own Young Buns Doughnuts, Mix Rooftop & Bar, Adam T. Young Confections and most recently Adam T. Young Bar & Bonbons (cocktail bar). I’ve enjoyed watching this business grow (and their delicious products!).

Entering Sift is just a magical experience, to walk among the glass and check out the bakery goods such as macarons, cakes, sandwiches, bread, cookies, croissants, and many more! It’s so hard to pick when you want to try everything. They aren’t known for 1-2 items… EVERYTHING is that good. They also have a drink menu offering coffee and tea. They do all of their baking in-house, you can have a sneak peek of their kitchen in the back through a glass window. Most of time, you’ll get to see Chef Adam!

You will be able to place your order with a staff. The staff will instruct you to wait by the cash registers while they get your order together. Credit cards/Apple Pay is accepted. There are several seating options inside and outside on the patio.

My favorites have changed over the years, not by choice. I was diagnosed gluten free in 2019 so presently, I enjoy the GF/dairy free chocolate chip cookie and the delicious macarons. There are some cakes that are GF too, and the ginger molasses cookies. Please note, it is not a dedicated gluten free bakery so there’s always the risk of cross contamination. The staff do their best, very willing to switch their gloves when handling GF products. Before I went gluten free, my favorite treats were the chocolate croissant (it is to die for!), pecan scottie cookie and ebbieoche (cinnamon sugar croissant).

Sift Bake Shop also has fun seasonal offerings. Some of the best are: the green croissants with Irish cream filling for St. Patrick’s Day (and parade day!), breakable chocolate Easter egg with treats inside, seasonal flavored macarons (I LOVE the pumpkin during fall and peppermint during winter).

Be sure to sign up for the email list where you’ll get the updates, special menu for holidays, news, etc. You also can follow them on their social media too. It’s definitely worthwhile to stop by Sift Bake Shop, it won’t be your last time there after you have a bite of their deliciousness!

A tribute to Robert F. Panara

I thought I’d share the story of a Deaf role model. Every time July rolls around, I think of Robert F. Panara. Who was he? He was the co-founder of my alum mater the National Technical Institute for the Deaf (NTID) at Rochester Institute of Technology. At the time, RIT consisted of 8 colleges of which I attended NTID then COLA (College of Liberal Arts). Panara is a pioneer in deaf culture studies.

Born in New York City, Panara lost his hearing when he was 10 years old. He had become ill with meningitis. That didn’t deter him from going to Gallaudet college in Washington DC. After graduation, he taught there until he came to Rochester, NY to found NTID. Additionally, he was also a writer. Some of the poetry he wrote was published in the 90’s.

Photo credit: Democrat & Chronicle.

When I attended RIT as a freshman, Robert Panara’s son was my English professor. That’s when I had learned about his legacy and realized how much his father had done for the Deaf community. I enjoyed hearing some stories from my professor throughout the quarter.

During my second year, I met Panara at a Rochester Red Wings baseball game. He was with his son, my English professor. I had went over to say hi and ended up in a conversation with him. He had the most contagious smile. I fell in love with his storytelling. I could tell how much he loved baseball!

Every time I returned to the stadium I’d look for them in their usual seats. I loved interacting with Panara. He was the happiest guy! I learned more stories about him. I had heard that he met Babe Ruth which he later confirmed, but he didn’t go in the details of the story. I saw a recorded video filmed by his friend after his passing of him explaining the story of how he met the Great Bambino. You could see from the video what a great storyteller Panara was.

NTID named the theater after him in 1987, Panara was very involved in theater and created plays for deaf actors. He founded National Theater of the Deaf (NTD) in New London, Connecticut. I didn’t learn this fact until after I moved to Connecticut. I wasn’t aware of NTD. Unfortunately, around the time I moved to the state NTD was going through changes and relocated from New London.  I was sad to learn that they weren’t local to me anymore!   

Robert Panara passed away at age of 94 in July 2014. In 2017, the United States Postal Service included Panara in the Distinguished Americans series. There is a stamp of him signing ‘respect’. The image was seen on several posters plastered around NTID and RIT campus while I attended college. It brought back fond memories!

I’m grateful for Robert Panara’s vast contribution to the Deaf community. Without him, I wouldn’t have gone to NTID/RIT. My education and post-college life would have been so different. He became one of my favorite Deaf role models, even though I didn’t learn of him until my adult years. It’s never too late to have new role models! I’m also lucky to have had those interactions with him at one of his favorite loves - baseball. His smile will live on in my memory!

If you want to read more about Robert Panara, I recommend the book: Teaching from the Heart and Soul: The Robert F. Panara Story by Harry Lang.

Camping in Mystic, CT

Did you know there’s a campground right here in Mystic, CT?!

I shared in 2021 that I bought an A-frame popup camper. I went on my first camping trip that Fall to Jim Thorpe, Pennsylvania. In 2022, I traveled to Maine and New Hampshire. During Spring of 2022, I didn’t have a big camping trip planned so I took it to the local campground right here in Mystic, CT.

Sun Outdoors Mystic (formerly known as Seaport RV Resort) is located off Route 184 in Old Mystic. It’s always interesting to see what places are like in your own town. I’ve always wondered about this campground and I finally had a camper. I was also there to promote for another project.

I was glad to experience it and would recommend staying here. Especially if you’re traveling with your 4-legged fur kids. This campground has a lot going for the location with the proximity to Mystic and Stonington. You can have the touristy day: shopping, visiting museums, eating out at restaurants AND still have the camping experience with bonfires, playing horseshoes, sleep under the starry sky.

The campground was very, very spacious. It’s huge. There is plenty of room. I went camping in mid-May and it was empty since it was still before Memorial Day weekend (when the season really starts). It was so quiet and peaceful! There was a brook behind the campground where you could go fishing.

Since the campground wasn’t fully open yet, I didn’t get to experience the mini golf course or swimming in the heated pool. There were plenty of things to do there from what I could see! A nice playground for kids, basketball court, horseshoes, volleyball, and many more. Inside the main building there was a small store and game room. The firewood is available to be purchased at the store.

In the common area behind the main building there is a large fire pit with several Adirondack chairs for anyone to enjoy around the campfire. It’s a fun way to meet other visitors and find out where they’re all traveling from. If you prefer a private campfire, each campsite comes with your own fire ring. Additionally, every campsite is outfitted was a picnic table.

The campground overall felt very spacious and secured as it is in a gated property. We had no issues with WiFi. Cable TV is also offered. The restrooms/showers were clean. The prices are very affordable, especially for staying in the Mystic area! It’s only 15 minute drive to Downtown Mystic. If you aren’t in the mood to cook your own breakfast, be sure to visit Somewhere in Time. A local favorite! It’s only 4 minute drive from the campground up Route 184.

I would recommend staying here as there are a lot possibilities for things to do, restaurants to eat, places to shop, etc. You can’t beat that price and the fact that it’s one of few dog-friendly spots to stay! Feel free to browse for more Mystic recommendations on my blog under the Mystic tab.

Happy camping!

Book review: Give Me a Sign

I was scrolling through NetGalley and spotted this cover. Wait, are they signing?! Pulling me into the synopsis and sure enough, it was a book with Deaf characters and about Deaf culture! Since there are so few books out there with Deaf characters, I get really excited when I see a new one! Even more so, I saw this was an OwnVoices (Deaf author) so I had higher expectations for this book.

Synopsis:

Jenny Han meets CODA in this big-hearted YA debut about first love and Deaf pride at a summer camp.

Lilah is stuck in the middle. At least, that’s what having a hearing loss seems like sometimes—when you don’t feel “deaf enough” to identify as Deaf or hearing enough to meet the world’s expectations. But this summer, Lilah is ready for a change.

When Lilah becomes a counselor at a summer camp for the deaf and blind, her plan is to brush up on her ASL. Once there, she also finds a community. There are cute British lifeguards who break hearts but not rules, a YouTuber who’s just a bit desperate for clout, the campers Lilah’s responsible for (and overwhelmed by)—and then there’s Isaac, the dreamy Deaf counselor who volunteers to help Lilah with her signing.

Romance was never on the agenda, and Lilah’s not positive Isaac likes her that way. But all signs seem to point to love. Unless she’s reading them wrong? One thing’s for Lilah wanted change, and things here . . . they're certainly different than what she’s used to.


Review:

I absolutely LOVED it! Amazing YA debut from Anna Sortino coming out on July 11th. The book covered a wide spectrum of Deaf identities that exist in the Deaf community. The main character, Lilah and I do not have the same background but I understood the frustration of feeling stuck in between both worlds (hearing and deaf). I could relate to Lilah’s journey of finding her identity.

Anna Sortino did an amazing job of explaining a lot about the Deaf community without being too dry. She educates us about the communication (ASL vs voice), the cochlear implants controversy, hearing aids, ableism, and many more. This book is a perfect example of no ‘one-size-fits-all’ in the Deaf community.

I’m so envious of the teens today to have this kind book, I wish I had this when I was 13 years old! I also never attended a summer camp for the Deaf, so I may not understand the nostalgia of a summer camp. However, it did bring back the feelings I experience of being immersed into the Deaf world for the first time at college when was 18 years old (Lilah is 17). It stirred up many memories for me!

Towards the end of the book, there was an incident that really made me mad (you’ll know when you read it!). I can’t relate to that particular situation but I can understand the frustration of not being ‘heard’. This part was triggering but I’m glad that the author included this as it is reality for many Deaf people.

I can’t say enough how much I loved this book. I plan to run out on pub day to get an actual physical copy. I’m going to recommend this book non stop! Be sure to put this on your summer TBR list!

explore mystic by water by kayaking with Adventure Mystic

Last week I had an unforgettable kayaking experience on the Mystic River with Adventure Mystic. They reached out and told me that one of their paddle instructors had the ability to use American Sign Language (ASL). I agreed to book a paddle with them.

Usually in the past, when I’m told that someone knows sign language… it’s very BASIC. Maybe a few signs and fingerspelling. Not enough to hold a conversation. I went into this with low expectations. When I met Vega, the paddle instructor… I quickly realized she knew a good amount of ASL! I was thrilled. She was very accommodating.

She took my family and I out on Mystic River for a personalized experience. I ended up chatting with her a lot. It was so nice to have someone other than my family member to sign with. Vega was very attentive, asked questions, made sure that I knew what was going on and she was very easy to talk with. Very friendly. The ability to have a conversation with her made this whole experience a lot more  fun and meaningful.

I’ve used Adventure Mystic in the past and it’s always been a fun time. You can’t beat the views you get on the scenic Mystic River. You get to see Downtown Mystic and Mystic Seaport Museum from a different perspective. We got to watch the drawbridge go up from the water. It’s fun to paddle under the drawbridge, but watch out for the pigeons!

The evening we went was the perfect temperature and a beautiful day. It was relaxing and we enjoyed the views. Every time I’ve gone to Adventure Mystic, the staff has always been helpful and friendly. Now I can add that they have a paddle instructor who is deaf friendly this summer!

Adventure Mystic is located in downtown Mystic at 15 Holmes Street. You can rent kayaks or SUP paddle board for 1 hour, 2 hour, half day or full day. Very affordable prices. Opened daily from 10am-6pm.

Deaf Anxiety

In my daily life as a deaf person, I have deaf anxiety. It is a phrase for deaf and hard of hearing people that have anxiety triggered from the inability to hear. The phrase ‘deaf anxiety’ was coined by deaf disability activist named Artie McWilliams. You can watch the video of him describing it here on YouTube - Artie McWilliams - Deaf Anxiety.

For many years, I’ve dealt with this but never knew what exactly to call it. Artie explained it perfectly and made a lot of sense. I was born into a hearing family and into a hearing environment. I was also born during the period when oralism was still encouraged over sign language. I grew up my entire life combating the stigma of deafness and trying to blend in the hearing world as much as possible.

Recently I attended a book signing. I had a HUGE case of deaf anxiety that started the morning of up to the book signing event at 4:30 PM. I struggled on whether I should share this experience because I don’t want to sound like I’m complaining or ‘poor me’. I don’t know how many people realize about deaf anxiety as it isn’t something that is often talked about.

The morning of, I woke up with excitement and nervousness of meeting one of my most favorite New England based authors. She was coming to visit the local bookstore in my town of Mystic, CT. I spent the entire day doing NOTHING. I was too nervous to do anything. I had plans of running errands. I couldn’t. I felt frozen. I overthought about every possible scenario that could happen at the book signing.

I was going alone too, so that elevated my nervousness. How can I communicate with everyone, especially the author? I wonder if anyone in line around me would try to talk to me? What if those behind me talk, and I don’t realize it? Would I have any issues of checking in the event with the bookstore staff? These were just a few thoughts I had.

Obviously I want to have a dialogue with the author. I planned on using the trusty Cardzilla app (a feature where you can type and the text is enlarged) on my iPhone to communicate. It hit me an hour before the event… what if I need to give my phone for the photo first before I even get to the author? That’s what had happened with another TV celebrity that I met. I found some nice stationary paper with hydrangeas on it and wrote my comments for the author.

When I showed up to the line, I tried to be early as possible so less waiting (and less time to over-think everything) would shorten the deaf anxiety. The bookstore staff was passing out papers with information about the book signing event which was so helpful. WHEW! It explained a lot of what will happen and what to expect.

About a half hour in (it was a total of an hour wait for me), the panic kicked in HARD. I felt nauseous, difficult to breathe, my heart was beating fast, sweating a little, my head was pounding, I felt like my legs were going. I started to pace in my little space that I had. I tried to focus on something but it was really difficult. Meanwhile, I looked completely fine on the outside so nobody would have known what was going on.

Once I got to the check in table, I knew to give them my printed out barcode. I smiled a lot and nodded. Followed what people in front of me did. I do a lot of watching of others around me at any events. As I was approaching the table, I was hit with panic again. I saw two people that I worked with on a collab. All of our interactions had been via e-mail or online. I never met them in person. How do I talk with them? Will they know who I am? It’d be nice to introduce myself to them, but how? I need to give my phone away for photos. I only had one note that was for the author.

Unexpected things pop up often during the events and I’m not prepared. It can really drive the deaf anxiety. I genuinely smiled at both of them. One of them commented that she recognized me so I was nodding in understandment. I felt silly that I couldn’t say more but didn’t have a way to communicate. Also both were working the event, so I knew there wasn’t a lot of time which is needed to communicate with any deaf person/people. I gave my phone to the other one, smiling at her and said hi.

I approached the author, she was faced down signing the book. I saw that she said something but I waited for her to look at me. This was when a moment happened that made me smile - the bookstore owner touched the author on the arm, said something to her (I’m assuming to tell her I was deaf or to look at me) and I gave her my note. I smiled a lot. I’m not sure if the author said anything in reply but she looked at me with a smile. We posed for the photos and I signed ‘thank you’.

I hate that all of this (deaf anxiety) is because of the years of stigma and inaccessibility. I spent the majority of my life immersed in the hearing world. I had internalized audism - I still feel from time to time that deafness is bad. I’m constantly on high alert, working out whether people will understand me, fake smiling/nodding, wanting to talk but can’t, and always feeling constant uncertainty. It is a LOT on me emotionally and physically. It’s even hard work to just run errands. Usually the day I have events to attend, I don’t do anything because I need that rest then after it’s over - I crash so hard.

Usually I avoid social events because of this. Don’t get me wrong, the book signing experience wasn’t AWFUL - I was very thrilled to meet the author. Naturally everything went well and the entire day of deaf anxiety seemed pointless. This is what happens every time - the majority of events, errands, whatever always turns out to be fine. I always wonder after the events/appointments/etc why did I stress so much like this? It seems so pointless but yet, the deaf anxiety never goes away because my deafness is for life.