What I Read in May 2025

All books for May were 4 stars! I enjoyed them all and can’t wait to finally start the beach reads in June!

Broken Country by Clare Leslie Hall

HIGHLY RECOMMEND

We are taken to the rural English village in the 1960’s. Beth and Frank lives on their farm, when one day Frank’s brother shot a dog chasing after the sheep. The dog owner was Beth’s first love, Gabriel. This is a read about love triangle and a murder mystery. If you’re in a reading slump, this is the book for you! It reads like a thriller and kept me invested. I’m excited that this book is already signed to be adapted into a movie with Hello Sunshine (Reese Witherspoon’s company).

Maine Characters by Hannah Orenstein*

HIGHLY RECOMMEND

I couldn't wait to dive into this book! Taking place at a lake house in Maine, two half-sisters meet for the first time after their father’s unexpected passing. They spent the summer together, getting to know each other and to make decisions about the family lake house. I LOVED it!!! I love any books taking place in New England. This book also was referred as “The Parent Trap”, but with adults. I was intrigued as that is one of my favorite movies. Sure enough, I could see why! While both sisters could be flawed at times, the complicated family drama was entertaining. The author did excellent job of describing the lake too. I enjoyed this book and would highly recommend!

Courtroom Drama by Neely Tubati Alexander*

HIGHLY RECOMMEND

The title immediately grabbed my attention. We meet Syd who was selected to be on the jury for a high profile court case. Syd bumps into her old childhood best friend/crush Damon. Damon also was selected for jury. They have to be sequestered together with no access to outside world (phones taken away, no TV/news, etc). I was glued! Each chapter title had a court term with definition which I loved that. The book was described as Legally Blonde x Jury Duty meets The Real Housewives. That’s exactly what it was! The book was very enjoyable and entertaining — I couldn’t put it down.

How are the books rated:

Favorite — LOVED the book / Couldn’t put it down!

Highly Recommend — Great book / Enjoyed.

Liked — Good book / Liked it while reading, but will not remember.

DNF — Did Not Finish / Do not recommend.

No Rating — I do not give ratings on sensitive subject/memoirs.

Books with * were advanced reader copies received from NetGalley and the publisher. All opinions are my own.

GALLERY: Mystic in Bloom 2025

Memorial Day Weekend 2025 in Mystic, Connecticut

During Memorial Day Weekend, I got up for a sunrise walk through Downtown Mystic, Connecticut. The flags were up and shining in the morning glow. I look forward to this every year (as well Flag Day and Fourth of July). The earlier you go, it’s likely to capture scenes without too many people or cars! There’s also something serene about those early morning walks.

Downtown Mystic got lively for the annual Memorial Day parade later on. We saw several antique cars, Boy Scouts troops, firetrucks and law enforcement, military vehicles and many more. It was a beautiful day to remember those who made the sacrifices for our country.

Getting up early and attending a parade definitely got me wiped like K9 Chase photographed here! Note: Don't worry, K9 Chase was able to go back to work while I went home and crashed on my couch!

My thoughts on 'Deaf President Now!' documentary on Apple TV+

The Deaf President Now! documentary directed by Nyle DiMarco and Davis Guggenheim was released on May 16 on Apple TV+.

Image courtesy of Apple TV+

BACKGROUND

Let me share some background first. Gallaudet University is the only university for the deaf and hard of hearing in the world. Founded on April 8, 1846 when President Abraham Lincoln signed the bill. Gallaudet is located in Washington D.C. In 1988, the board of trustees appointed a hearing president for Gallaudet University. Gallaudet had yet to see a deaf president. The students and faculty were very ready to see a deaf person representing them. There were three candidates who applied for the president position — one hearing woman and two deaf men. After the hearing woman was appointed, Gallaudet community started a week long protest to voice their disappointment.

Image courtesy of Gallaudet University website.

WHO IS NYLE DIMARCO?

I am thrilled to see more deaf stories in the media. Also particularly glad that it was co-directed by Nyle DiMarco, who is deaf. He is known from winning a season of America’s Next Top Model and Dancing with the Stars. He wrote a memoir and directed Deaf U for Netflix. The deaf stories often are in the best hands (no pun intended) when there is a true deaf representation.

MY REVIEW

Now, here’s my thoughts about the Deaf President Now! documentary. In one word… stimulating. My brain went in an overdrive after seeing the movie (twice). I liked how the documentary focused on the 4 deaf leaders behind Deaf President Now movement and one deaf president candidate, I. King Jordan. I do wish there were more perspectives included — from interpreters (especially Spilman’s interpreter), the other deaf president candidate (Harvey Corson), more students and faculty, especially from Spilman herself (but she passed away in 2015).

Another aspect of the movie that I enjoyed was the representation of sounds. Sometimes the sounds would cut out. It also showed the sounds (fire alarm flashing, the banging, light flashing, etc).

The nostalgia! The documentary included a lot of footage from 1988. Some of the clips had an interpreter on the screen in a black circle in the corner, that was how it was during 80’s and 90’s. These days, now when interpreters are on the screen, they have their own box/square. They also showed TTY — teletypewriter. An old device that deaf people used back in the early days of technology. We had to place phones on top of the device and type messages to the caller on the other end. The old hearing aids — where we had hearing aids in our ears that connected to a device we wore on our chest.

Again, it was stimulating because it was such a huge part of deaf history. It explained all the struggles deaf people faced from the past up to that moment in 1988. There was a mention about Alexander Graham Bell (yes, that guy who invented telephones) and how much his beliefs impacted deaf education. Why were the deaf people deserving of a deaf person to be the leader of Gallaudet University? This documentary showed why. The Deaf President Now movement also was a factor in The Americans with Disabilities Act to be established a couple years later.

IS IT WORTH TO WATCH IT? ***SPOILER ALERT***

I felt very inspired that these deaf students and faculty fought for a deaf president and in the end, it happened. Now Gallaudet University has had a deaf president ever since. All because they didn’t give up. They are able to sit here and tell us their stories through this documentary. They are a part of why deaf people are capable of doing more and to be where we are today. While we still have a lot of more work to do, this historic event gave that extra push for the deaf community! This documentary is definitely worth a watch!

Image courtesy of Apple TV+

Are you interested in more deaf-related blogs? Here are some suggestions:

Alexander Graham Bell and the Deaf community

Deaf Movies/TV series

How to learn American Sign Language

Find more blogs about my deaf experiences or deaf topics here.

All opinion in this blog are my own. It does not reflect the opinions of other deaf and hard of hearing people.

GALLERY: Bicycles on Main 2025 in Old Wethersfield, CT

Photographed in Old Wethersfield, Connecticut on May 16, 2025 for their annual Bicycles on Main.

Read more: How to a spend a day in Old Wethersfield.

Flower Moon 2025 in Noank, Connecticut

On May 11, 2025, I captured a few shots of the flower moon over this sailboat moored in Noank Shipyard in Noank, Connecticut. The night prior I had dinner at Abbott’s Lobster in the Rough (they’re opened for the season!). I saw the moon rise above the sailboat but didn’t have my camera gear with me. I knew I had to return the following night.

I was thrilled to capture these beautiful shots. I only wish there were more sailboats or other boats out there for me to use! Lucky for this owner, I was able to get a lot of shots (if this is yours, send me a message and I’ll give you them for free!). I love capturing full moon by the water.

GALLERY: Spring 2025 at Mystic Seaport Museum

Photographed at Mystic Seaport Museum in Mystic, Connecticut between April-May 2025.

My April 2025 reads

My reads started off strong for April. I finally had my first DNF (actually 3!) for 2025. It’s ok to not finish a book if it’s not your style. Don’t waste time reading a book if it doesn’t do anything for you. I’m looking forward to May when there’s a lot more of new releases and soon it’ll be summer reads season!

The Wandering Season by Aimie K. Runyon *

FAVORITE

I absolutely loved this read! Veronica works in the restaurant industry and recently found out that she has been adopted. Her family chips in on a month long vacation for Veronica to Ireland, France, Italy and Denmark. Those countries were in her DNA so she went to learn about her ancestors. This was such a beautiful story and inspiring. It was very relatable and a sprinkle of magical realism made it fun!

The Love We Found by Jill Santopolo

HIGHLY RECOMMEND

We were introduced to Lucy and Gabe in the first book The Light We Lost. In this book, it is 10 years later and Lucy has to make some decisions that could be life-changing. Lucy is still coping from what happened (can’t mention it because spoilers!) in the first book as well. As I said about the first book, it is a beautiful story about true love. I was nervous about the sequel ruining the first book, but happily enough I was proven wrong. I really enjoyed this book so much!

The Fisherman’s Gift by Julia R. Kelly

DNF

As beautiful the synopsis sounded… I couldn’t get into the writing style.

The Wedding Dashers by Heather McBreen

DNF

I read about 3 chapters and couldn’t get engaged into this story (pun intended).

Confessions by Catherine Airey

DNF

As much I wish I could say that I liked this book — it had a strong start but then I just didn’t care anymore to continue reading.

The Griffin Sisters’ Greatest Hits by Jennifer Weiner *

LIKED

The book is about sisters, Cassie and Zoe Grossberg who became the famous Griffin Sisters (band) in early 2000’s. The band broke up after a year because of a tragedy. The sisters never spoke to each other again. 20 years later, Zoe’s daughter seeks out the truth about what happened with Griffin Sisters. It was a slow start but the pacing picked up mid-way. What I enjoyed was the 2000s nostalgia and girl bands. The complicated history of Griffin Sisters was a lot but written well. This book is packed with emotions and lessons!

The Dinner Party by Brenda Janowitz

HIGHLY RECOMMEND

Taking place at Passover, The Golds Family are hosting a seder dinner where one of their daughters is bringing her boyfriend’s family. The family happens to be The Rothschilds — really well known in New York City. This is a fun family drama read! Very enjoyable and bingeable. It was the perfect timing to pick this up for Passover this month. I’ve loved all of Janowitz’s books — she never disappoints!

Gandolfini: Jim, Tony, and the Life of a Legend by Jason Bailey *

NO RATING

As a huge fan of The Sopranos, I was intrigued to read this upcoming release about James Gandolfini. I throughly enjoyed the interviews with people from Gandolfini’s life. It was very detailed and intriguing. I liked that the people interviewed were from every project he’s worked on. The author did excellent job of research and putting this book together. It flowed so smoothly and I was glued! This is how all biography books should be like.

How are the books rated:

Favorite — LOVED the book / Couldn’t put it down!

Highly Recommend — Great book / Enjoyed.

Liked — Good book / Liked it while reading, but will not remember.

DNF — Did Not Finish / Do not recommend.

No Rating — I do not give ratings on sensitive subject/memoirs.

Books with * were advanced reader copies received from NetGalley and the publisher. All opinions are my own.

Celebrate International Firefighters Day in Connecticut

Every year on May 4th, International Firefighters’ Day [St. Florian’s Day] is observed. The date was chosen because St. Florian had passed away on this day. St. Florian, the patron saint for firefighters, he was the first known commender in firefighting. 

In Connecticut, there are a few places to go and learn about firefighting history:

The Fire Museum — Manchester, CT

The Connecticut Firemen’s Historical Society was established in 1970. Many of memorabilia and history were becoming lost to other states. The society was formed of firefighters who worked to preserve the history and keep it in Connecticut. The museum is in a restored fire station. The United States Navy Seabees and many other volunteers helped to fix up the station. Now it is a museum that stores some apparatus, firefighting equipment and more. The hours are from 12-4pm on Fridays and Saturdays [April-November]. If you have a larger group wanting to tour the museum, it is encouraged to call ahead. Admission is by donation. 

Fire Museum — Manchester, CT.

I went to this museum and was stunned at how beautiful it was, the collections were preserved so carefully it was very impressive. The 1901 wooden firehouse was bigger than I expected it to be, but the self-guided tour took at least a hour. In one of the rooms, there were photographs from the CT Fire Photographers Association. It was neat to recognize some photographers that I follow on social media. I throughly enjoyed touring the firehouse and would highly recommend it to anyone for a visit.

The fireman’s pole is still intact here, but couldn’t do a slide on it!

The photos gallery of CT Fire Photographers Association.

Posing with one of the apparatus at the museum.

Museum of Fire History at The Carousel Museum — Bristol, CT

The museum preserved the firefighting legacy of Carlyle “Hap” Barnes, who was an avid collector of equipment, memorabilia and technology. The collection consists of over 1,000+ pieces of apparatus, some dating back to 17th century.

Fire Fighter fireboat at Mystic Seaport Museum — Mystic, CT

The Fire Fighter currently docked at Mystic Seaport Museum once helped with recovery efforts during September 11th. It has the ability to pump 20,000+ gallons a minute, which made her the most powerful fireboat in the world. The Fire Fighter was the longest serving fireboat for New York, decommissioned in 2010. The historical vessel is available for guided tours during Mystic Seaport Museum hours.

I have visited the Fire Fighter many times from when she visited City of New London then Mystic Seaport Museum. It is always so fascinating to walk around this historical vessel and think about all it has gone through. It’s like that saying, ‘only if those walls could talk’. The guides are always knowledgable about the history of the boat. As it was mentioned, it served during Sept. 11th - there is a piece from the rumbles that was created into a cross and now mounted on one of the doors on Fire Fighter. During summers, they sometimes do water works show where they use the pumps. It’s such an amazing historical vessel.

Fire Fighter fireboat — Mystic, CT.

Around the state, there are many historical fire stations that have been restored, functioning as private residences (do those people still slide down the pole?!) or abandoned. I can’t list them all here as there are that many through out the state. I love to look for old fire stations and photograph them on my travels. 

Engine No.6 Pizza — Norwich, CT.

An art gallery — New London, CT.

I also enjoy seeing historical fire stations that still operates currently and some stations that have older fire trucks. I’m always looking for LaFrance trucks because my great grandfather painted the lettering on some of the trucks when he worked at the plant in Elmira, NY. 

An antique LaFrance Westport (CT) firetruck.

Thank you to all firefighters for what you do to keep the communities safe and always there for us! A special thank you to my brother, my favorite firefighter who I am so proud of! 

My Favorite Connecticut Indie Bookstores

Independent Bookstore Day is taking place on the last Saturday of April. Many indie bookstores will host their own celebrations on this day with prizes, discounts, fun things for kids, etc. We are fortunate to have so many amazing bookstores in Connecticut and beyond!

What I love about the indie bookstores is the personal interactions with the booksellers, curated book selections based on the location of the bookstore, the charm, its unique personality. There are some bookstores that I could easily stay there all day long!

Here are my top favorites:

RJ Julia’s — Madison

This is the most stunning bookstore I’ve been to in Connecticut. I admire the dark wood, wood flooring and the green shelves. The selection is impressive.

Book Barn — Niantic

This is the Mecca of used books and they have three locations through out Niantic. I always have to plan an entire day for this outing!

Hickory Stick Bookshop — Washington

I always have to visit this bookstore whether I take a day trip up to Washington. It is very cozy bookstore. They have a special Gilmore Girls selection!

Syd’s Book Shack & Boutique — Madison

This used books bookstore is very inviting and has beautiful views of the marshes behind the store. The book selection is always impressive and great priced. I also love their mission of helping nonverbal kids with technology.

Westport Book Shop — Westport

I have been a long time fan of Westport book sales so I was thrilled when they opened this used books shop. Very organized, their used books almost always look like-new!

Black Rock Books — Bridgeport

The cutest little bookstore! I’m obsessed with the logo which has a lighthouse in it. Of course, I picked up a shirt! I love how they have a used books cart at discounted prices.

Montgomery & Taggert — Chester

The only romance bookstore in Connecticut. It has all the best romance books that you’ll want to read!

A special shout out to my local bookstores in Mystic:

Bank Square Books — Mystic

The bookstore has its charm and plenty to pick from!

No Other Books Like This — Mystic

A great used-books store with plenty to pick from. The shop has an impressive selection of antique/rare books. It’s worth a pop in, especially to say hi to the shop dogs!

Alice’s Little Haunted Bookshop — Mystic

It’s a small shop but perfectly curated selection. If you’re a fan of Halloween and anything spooky, you’ll enjoy this bookshop.

There are plenty more of bookstores across Connecticut that didn’t make the list. I haven’t been to all of them yet, but that’s a goal I’m willing to try to accomplish! Hope you enjoy the wonderful indie bookstores in Connecticut!

A spring stroll around Wilcox Park in Westerly, Rhode Island

Every spring, I hop over the border from Connecticut to Rhode Island to visit Wilcox Park. It is located in Westerly, Rhode Island in the heart of Downtown. Wilcox Park is a 14 acres botanical garden. The park is very spacious with walking paths, benches, and large grassy areas.

I recently took my pup for a stroll around the park to enjoy all the trees and flowers that had bloomed. Often during April, I visit the park multiple times to enjoy the nature. There is a gazebo, a pond with turtles and fishes, a pretty footbridge and more to admire. There is a foundation to the side of the library and a military memorial site.

When everything blooms, it is very photogenic! I’ve seen families and couples use it as a backdrop for their photos. I’ve always left Wilcox Park with so many photos to share. The park is very underrated and a gem in Westerly, RI. It neighbors the Downtown Westerly and Pawcatuck so it’s easy to make a day out of it. There are plenty of local businesses and restaurants to support.

The park is opened to the public from dawn-dusk. Parking spots are available around Wilcox Park near Westerly Library or in Downtown Westerly. There are several entrances into the park — one is through the garden next to Westerly Library or on High St x Canal St (near United) will take you directly to the turtle pond. The park welcomes dogs on leash.

Enjoy the beautiful park and remember to keep it clean!

A guide to visiting Groton, Connecticut

Did you know that Mystic is considered a village that is part of Groton, Connecticut? If you’re on the right side, that is. The downtown where Sift Bake Shop and Mystic Pizza are - that is the Groton side. If you cross over the bridge towards Whaler’s Inn and Mystic River Park, you’re in Stonington.

Groton was nicknamed “Rotten Groton”, but there’s nothing rotten about it! When I moved to Connecticut, I learned about its rich military history. Groton is known as the submarine capital of the world. If you’re looking for an easy short day, look no further than Groton.

A painted sub that was part of a town-wide submarine trail in 2016. Some subs can be spotted in the wild to this day.

A painted sub that was part of a town-wide submarine trail in 2016. Some subs can be spotted in the wild to this day.

Fort Griswold Battlefield State Park is a Revolutionary War era battlefield that sits next to the Thames River. It’s across the river from Fort Trumbull in New London, CT. Fort Griswold is a 17 acres battlefield with old cannons, memorials and monuments. There is a 135 feet obelisk monument dedicated to lives lost during the battle. I had the opportunity to walk up the 166 steps to the top and see the river view! It was gorgeous sunny that day when I went up. Next to the monument, there is a small museum (in the old caretaker’s house) with historical artifacts. The museum and monument are open to the public from Memorial Day to Labor Day. The battlefield is open year-round. It’s fun to explore and walk around the battlefield during any season. The river view is always amazing (here’s a tip, this is one of the best spots for sunsets!).

Entrance to Fort Griswold.

Entrance to Fort Griswold.

Rocky path down to the open field (there are other paths that aren’t as rocky, but may be steep climb).

Rocky path down to the open field (there are other paths that aren’t as rocky, but may be steep climb).

One of underground bunkers at Fort Griswold.

One of underground bunkers at Fort Griswold.

The view of Thames River from Fort Griswold.

The view of Thames River from Fort Griswold.

Submarine Force Museum / USS Nautilus has an amazing collection of the submarine history. The museum is managed by the U.S. Navy. You can also tour the USS Nautilus, the first nuclear powered submarine. The tour is usually about half hour long, and definitely not for those who are claustrophobic! It was a challenge for me, but I did it. I have EVEN more appreciation for our Sailors, I can’t imagine being confided in a tight space for months! There are two submarines on display out front of the museum as well. There’s so much to look at inside the museum, it’s worthwhile to explore this museum!

The Submarine Force museum.

The Submarine Force museum.

Submarine coming home - Halloween 2017.

Submarine coming home - Halloween 2017.

February 2018.

February 2018.

June 2021.

June 2021.

The reason why Groton is known to be the ‘submarine capital’ is because of U.S. Navy base (which is located right next to the museum) and General Dynamics Electric Boat. Electric Boat is the primary submarine builder for the U.S. Navy. If you’re lucky, you can spot a submarine going up or down the Thames River. Usually the best point of views is at Eastern Point Beach.

At Eastern Point Beach, you can see Thames River connecting into the Long Island sound. You can see many boats (ferries included) coming in and out. During the off season, parking is free for anyone. Many people go there to take in the beautiful coastal views. Again, this is another good spot for sunsets. From there, you can see two lighthouses - Ledge Light and New London Lighthouse. During summer, the beach can be a busy place to be!

View of Thames River from Eastern Point.

View of Thames River from Eastern Point.

Eastern Point Beach.

Eastern Point Beach.

UConn Avery Point is near by to Eastern Point Beach. There is a walking trail that is open to anyone. It also has beautiful coastal views. This is the home to one of my favorite lighthouses - the Avery Point Light. I enjoy watching people fishing off the rocks here. The Branford House (a mansion modeled oof the Newport Mansions) is stunning. I’m always amazed by its details, it seems like I find a new one every visit. Many weddings have occurred here, so if you’re here during summer on the weekends chances are very likely that you will see one. I love the panoramic ocean view from the balcony!

Branford Mansion at UConn Avery Point.

Branford Mansion at UConn Avery Point.

Avery Point Light. My pup couldn’t get in the festive mood with me!

Avery Point Light. My pup couldn’t get in the festive mood with me!

A lot of photo opportunities here!

A lot of photo opportunities here!

Avery Point Light in the dark - the green light is on every night.

Avery Point Light in the dark - the green light is on every night.

Groton is also home of the BEST pasta ever. Where? Paul’s Pasta Shop. It is a gem. The pasta is made fresh daily right there in their shop. When I first moved here, it quickly became a favorite. So much that I became a regular there. I’ve celebrated many milestones there. Paul’s Pasta is the coziness of Italian restaurants, friendly staff and amazing food. It is a very special place! The best part is that you can take fresh pasta home to cook another night!

Pesto pasta and lobster ravioli.

Pesto pasta and lobster ravioli.

Whenever I need some quietness from the bustle of Mystic, I enjoy walking around Groton either at the battlefield or Avery Point. You can’t beat those coastal views! I love how you can see all 3 lighthouses from Avery Point too. I used to sit at the Eastern Point Beach parking lot early in the morning with breakfast and watch the ferry when I lived in Groton. It took me a while before I finally saw my first submarine! That went in my book as one of the coolest thing I saw!

USS Nautilus.

USS Nautilus.

8 Libraries You Must Visit in Southeastern CT/RI

Happy National Library Week! I have such a huge appreciation for the libraries. I have been a bookworm dating back to my childhood days. Due to my deafness, I wasn’t able to hear information, books gave me that access. I learned so much through books about the world, people, cultures and beyond.

I still utilize libraries to this day. One thing that I love about Southeastern Connecticut is that there are so MANY libraries and some are in historical buildings. Where I grew up, I only had one library in a rural town. I’m amazed at how many there are within half hour of Mystic, CT so I’m sharing some of my favorites that you must visit:

WESTERLY LIBRARY & WILCOX PARK — WESTERLY, RI

This is a beautiful library overlooking a park. Keep an eye out for their book sales over the summers - they have a great selection. This time of the year is definitely the best to visit the park, all of the trees and plants are blooming. I always make this an annual spring trip!

WHEELER LIBRARY — NORTH STONINGTON, CT

In a former schoolhouse, this library is gorgeous. Especially the upper level. When you walk in Wheeler Library, there are two lions statues guarding the doors (reminds me of NYC Public Library!). Also the best part? There’s a year-round book sale in the cellar, all profits go back to the library. The staff here is so friendly, I would go back there just for them alone!

STONINGTON FREE LIBRARY — STONINGTON, CT

You can’t miss this library situated in the middle of the green, right as you enter the borough. Go inside and see the gorgeous upper level combined with regal columns and amazing floors. When the weather is beautiful, they have an outdoor patio where you can read or work at the table.

MYSTIC NOANK LIBRARY — MYSTIC, CT

One of the most beautiful libraries! Since it was a sea captain who built this, you can see nautical touches throughout the library. I love the exterior details… those green moldings! I also admire the carved oak ceiling! Cat lovers, this will be the one for you - there are two library cats that lives there. I always have to visit with them every time I drop in. The interior detail is just stunning, especially the green banker lamps which reminds me of the ones at Boston Public Library.

BILL MEMORIAL LIBRARY — GROTON, CT

Located right next to Fort Griswold, this beautiful small library is worth a peek. The interior details are stunning, wood paneled ceilings and the iron cast doors! Despite it being probably the smallest library, it is very cozy.

BILL LIBRARY — LEDYARD, CT

Yes, you read that right - there is another library in the area with the same name. If you read up on the history - there is a family connection with both. There is a walkable sidewalk from the library into Ledyard Center.

NEW LONDON PUBLIC LIBRARY — NEW LONDON, CT

Situated in Downtown New London, on the corner of State Street and Huntington Street. The historical library is surrounded by other historical buildings — the oldest courthouse across the street, Garde Art Centers and more.

PHOEBE GRIFFIN LIBRARY — OLD LYME, CT

I enjoy my visit there as it is perched on Main Street in Old Lyme, where there are nearby businesses to check out. The library also has a book sale cellar opened on Wednesdays and Saturdays.

There are more libraries in the area that I didn’t include. I always make sure to visit libraries on my day trips or travels. It’s amazing to see the variety of details and structures. I am forever grateful that libraries exist in today’s world!

My experience at Wicked Tulips in Preston, Connecticut

One of my bucket list items for years now has been to visit Wicked Tulips in Exeter, Rhode Island. Imagine my excitement when they opened a Connecticut location in Preston, 30 minutes drive from Mystic. I was thrilled to finally get my chance to go on opening day for Preston farm this year.

The Preston farm is the largest with 700,000 tulips! All together there are 1.5 million tulips between the three farms [Exeter, RI / Johnston, RI / Preston, CT]. It was easy to find the farm, they have a flags/“Entrance” sign off Route 164. A few people directed me where to park. It is a grassy farm land. The check-in was quick and easy. You do have to purchase tickets online as there aren’t any tickets sold on site. The tickets are sold in bundles at a time, as they follow the bloom reports closely and want to be sure there’s enough for everyone.

Each ticket will allow you to pick 10 tulips and any additional are $1 per. At the check-in, the staff was very helpful and asked if it was my first time visiting. They explained how to pull tulips appropriately. The website also explains everything. Pulling the tulips was fun, some of them will come up with its bulb attached (don’t worry, they’ll cut it off for you!).

It was a STUNNING sight. ALL. THE. COLORS. Wow. It was very impressive. I don’t know why I waited so long to visit Wicked Tulips! A very photogenic spot, they encourage you to take as many photos as you can! There’s a guideline on the website for photographers (professional and causal). I enjoyed photographing the tulips. I was there right before the sunset, so the lighting was mostly good!

Did you know there’s morning yoga sessions at Wicked Tulips too?? It’s on the weekends, pending weather. The tickets are sold the week of the yoga sessions. There’s also some sunset yoga sessions as well. It’s definitely worthwhile to subscribe to the emails where all the most recent updates are shared, even some information that you’ll get before it’s shared with the public.

I was able to stay there as long as I wanted. There were several tables and benches where you can take a seat. Snacking is allowed. The staff are extremely friendly and helpful. I was very impressed by their positive attitudes. On the way out, they even asked if we enjoyed ourselves and to have a good night. I was able to ask a staff to snap a photo of me and my husband. 5 stars for the staff!

Don’t wait on visiting Wicked Tulips like I did. The season is also very short, and varies on each location so again the website here will be helpful to plan your day. It’s so stunning and I loved it there. Definitely won’t be my last time visiting Wicked Tulips.

Wicked Tulips

  • Preston | 382 Route 164 Preston, CT 06365

  • Exeter | 400 Hog House Hill Rd Exeter, RI 02822

  • Johnston | 90 Brown Ave Johnston, RI 02919

www.wickedtulips.com

What I read in March 2025

March was a better reading month! As I was busy bingewatching TV series for January and February, I only bingewatched one show for March — ‘Below Deck’ (I’m anxiously waiting for boating season to start!). I focused more on reading especially with many books coming out this spring. Hooray!

Nobody’s Fool by Harlan Coben *

FAVORITE

Harlan Coben is an auto-buy author for thriller reads. I’ve never NOT liked any of his books. Nobody’s Fool is second in the Sami Kierce series but can be read as a standalone. Sami Kierce recalls when he went backpacking in Spain and woke up to his girlfriend dead next to him in the bed. Only he has no idea what happened. 22 years later, she shows up out of the blue to his class. He investigates two cases in this book which takes us on a very suspenseful journey! The storytelling is amazing and keeps you engaged. The last sentence blew my mind!

Kissing Kosher by Jean Meltzer

FAVORITE

I saved this book for Purim and it was the best decision! Kissing Kosher is a backlist title from my favorite Jewish author, Jean Meltzer. This book was amazing as we meet the grandkids of two rival kosher bakeries in Brooklyn, NYC. Avital suffers from a health condition which I appreciated the chronic pain representation. Ethan gets a job at the rival bakery to attempt stealing their babka recipe. It’s a fun read and officially one of my favorites of 2025!

Long Bright River by Liz Moore

HIGHLY RECOMMENDED

With the release of Long Bright River TV series on Peacock, I had to read the book before I watched it (I prefer to read before watching any book adaptions!). It’s a mystery read taking place in Philly, PA focused on the opioid issues. Mickey is a police officer who also has a sister, Kacey that is addicted to drugs. Kacey disappeared around same time of multiple murders so Mickey investigates about her well-being. It was a slow burn gripping read and kept me glued!

In Gad We Trust by Josh Gad

NO RATING

I only know Josh Gad as the voice of Olaf (the dancing snowman!) from Frozen movie. This memoir was very intriguing and interesting! He tells his life stories in a chronological order from his childhood to adult years. I binge-read it in a day. I enjoyed his humor and the Hollywood gossip. I could honestly say this was one of the best celeb memoirs I’ve read.

The Dark Hours by Amy Jordan

HIGHLY RECOMMENDED

A debut novel taking place in Ireland — I’m sold! It’s a slow burn mystery read about Garda Detective Inspector Julia Harte who came back out from her retirement. She caught a serial killer in 1994, only to have similar murders occur again 10 years later. She assists the current guards to find the culprit. I really enjoyed this read — it was very well written and good pacing! I’m hopeful that the author will publish more books in the future.

Harlem Rhapsody by Victoria Christopher Murray

FAVORITE

First of all — the beautiful cover! I’m a fan of the author who previously wrote The Personal Librarian and First Ladies with Marie Benedict. Murray really captured the magic of Harlem Renaissance in this historical fiction read. The main character centers around Jessie Redmon Fauset, who was a literary editor for a magazine that uplifted Black writers such as Langston Hughes, Countee Cullen and Nella Larsen. W.E.B. Du Bois is also in the book as the owner of the magazine that Fauset worked for. I binge-read this book in a day. I always enjoy learning more about history!

The Light We Lost by Jill Santopolo

HIGHLY RECOMMEND

The sequel to this book [The Love We Found] recently came out so I wanted to read the first book. We are introduced to Lucy and Gabe who meets on September 11, 2001 during the attacks. They met again a year later and fell in love. Only Gabe gets his dream job offer — photographing in the Middle East. This is a beautiful read about true love. It’s raw and powerful — the ending made me teary-eyed!

How are the books rated:

Favorite — LOVED the book / Couldn’t put it down!

Highly Recommend — Great book / Enjoyed.

Liked — Good book / Liked it while reading, but will not remember.

DNF — Did Not Finish / Do not recommend.

No Rating — I do not give ratings on sensitive subject/memoirs.

Books with * were advanced reader copies received from NetGalley and the publisher. All opinions are my own.

Cherry Blossoms in New Haven, Connecticut

The month of April always welcomes the beautiful cherry blossoms in New Haven, Connecticut. It is located at the Wooster Square Park. This is every photographer’s dream as the park is surrounded by beautiful historical homes. Usually the Historic Wooster Square Association hosts a cherry blossom festival the first Saturday of April.

As a photographer from Mystic, CT — I love to check out the cherry blossoms in New Haven. I usually can find parking right by the park. Do keep in mind, I have only gone during weekdays. I have no idea what the parking situation is like on the weekends. Since I drive an hour from Mystic, I also tend to make a day out of it in New Haven. Yale campus is a beautiful spot for photographing!

Two hours parking Mon-Fri from 8am-7pm all around Wooster Square Park.

It is a short walk around the Wooster Square Park but I take my time to enjoy the beauty of the cherry blossoms. It is stunning! There are a few benches around the park, I’ve seen people do picnics and bring their dogs there to play around on the grass. As I mentioned, the park is surrounded by beautiful historical homes. I’ve walked along some side streets from the park to admire the details and photograph them.

While you’re at Wooster Square Park, you always can smell pizza from one of the famous New Haven pizzerias that are nearby. If you’re hungry for a bite, look no further than Frank Pepe Pizzeria or Sally’s Apizza — you really can’t go wrong with either. Both are just 5 minute walk from Wooster Square Park. Modern Apizza (the only one that offers gluten free options) is not within walking distance but only 5 minute drive.

Enjoy the snaps I captured of the cherry blossoms (and surrounding scenes at Wooster Square Park and Yale campus) during April 2024 & 2025 season.

April 15, 2024

April 17, 2025

USS Indiana homecoming 3/27/25

Hooray for another homecoming in Groton, Connecticut. USS Indiana returned home on March 27, 2025. Seeing that red tug boat heading out never gets old — the excitement knowing that the submarine is nearing Thames River to head down to the sub base.

It was a cold and windy day, but it didn’t stop many people from coming out and support the sailors. The sub vets from Groton always attend every homecoming donning their red hats and fire off the cannon (with blanks, of course).

Grateful for our military to serve for our country, as well their families.

Gallery: Charles W. Morgan [March 2025]

Photographed on March 27, 2025 when Charles W. Morgan was moved to the shipyard at Mystic Seaport Museum for routine maintenance in Mystic, Connecticut.

where to enjoy the flowers in Connecticut

In Connecticut, we are lucky to have a few places where we can go enjoy the beautiful flowers — I’m here to recommend my favorites which I repeatedly visit!

Wicked Tulips — Preston, CT — April

The farm located in Preston is the largest with 700,000+ tulips. There are tickets to be purchased for entry to the field. With each ticket, you can pick 10 tulips to bring home. I was in awe with the colors of the field… so bold and colorful. It’s a beautiful sight! You can stay there as long as you want to enjoy the scenery. Read more about it here.

Wooster Square Park — New Haven, CT — April

The most beautiful cherry blossoms in the state! The park is surrounded by beautiful historical homes which makes a great backdrop. They usually bloom in early April. The first Saturday of April host the cherry blossom festival in the park.

Elizabeth Park — Hartford, CT — May/June

There are several flowers that you can see here which includes tulips, daffodils, annuals, perennials, roses, dahlias, and more. My favorite is the rose gardens that bloom in June. I always make a half day trip to see them. It’s in a public park so it’s open to anyone for free. Parking is also free! Follow their social media for updates. Also read more about my visit to Elizabeth Park here.

Lavender Pond Farm — Killingsworth, CT — mid June to mid July

The best smell! I loved when I walked around the grounds smelling lavender. There are over 10,000+ plants on their 25 acres of land. The best part? It’s dog friendly. I was able to bring my pup there a couple times. On the farm, there’s also a fun train ride that they drive the visitors around the farm. Read more about why I love visiting this farm here.

Buttonwood Farm Sunflowers — Griswold, CT — July

Griswold earned the ‘sunflower capital’ credit from Buttonwood Farm’s annual event. The Sunflowers for Wishes is a fundraiser donating all proceeds to the Make-A-Wish of Connecticut. There are 14 acres of sunflowers that you can take a stroll through, a special cut-your-own field, and take a tractor ride. It’s also dog friendly and while you admire the beautiful flowers, you can get one of the best ice cream in Connecticut there! Read more about Buttonwood Farm here.

Ender’s Island — Mystic, CT — mid August to mid September

A small island with a Catholic Retreat is opened to the public to enjoy the grounds. Their beautiful garden will bloom with dahlias mid August to mid September. They also have a few roses bushes that bloom in June.

Harkness Park — Waterford, CT — May to October

The gardens by the sea is beautiful at Harkness Park, a CT state park located in Waterford. Opened daily 8am - sunset. There is a parking fee for out of state residents during in-season. The gardens have a variety of flowers that blooms anytime from May to October. I’ve found August-October to be the best time to see it fully bloomed. I also love seeing the lilac bushes in May. You can make a day out of it by picnicking, flying a kite, read a book, many more activities there!

There are so many more beautiful places to check out the flowers that I haven’t been to yet. I’m sure there’s even more if you hopped over the border to Rhode Island too. I love that time of the year when the flowers bloom!

Gallery: Mystic Irish Parade 2025